my best friend (guy) my b/f or my ex
2006-06-24 17:37:24 · 9 answers · asked by sayuri e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ideally your husband. But remember, your virginity can only be given away once. So whomever you choose to give it to make sure it is someone that you can reflect on the experience with love and fond memories. You will be in "love" with whomever your choose forever so choose carefully.
If you choose your best friend it may change your relationship with him forever because he could start getting jealous when he sees you with other guys, or you could start getting jealous seeing him with other girls. Then you might not be friends anymore. That would suck.
if you choose your boyfriend, he might take it for granted. Or if he really loves you he may become insanely attached to you. Or you may become insanely attached to him and then he could totally blow you off. That would be bad.
Your ex doesn't deserve it. I am sure he is your Ex for a very good reason.
I say don't give it to any of them, but if you have to choose one, make it your best friend.
2006-06-24 17:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by ms_diva_dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should lose your virginity with the man you truly love and end up marrying. Save the moment to share it with the person you truly love and choose to marry. It will make that first time and night so much better and special for the two of you. I am 20 single and still a virgin. I feel waiting til I meet that right lady to marry is when I can than lose my virginity. Just wait til that special someone finds you and marrys you. Than on that special night lose your virginity to him. You will be glad you decided to wait til that moment to have sex for the first time and lose your virginity.
2006-06-25 00:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by jacoboctober11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. Did I shout? NEITHER.
I am anything but a prude, but I really think that if you are asking this question on this forum then you need to wait a long time before considering this irreversable choice.
Consider waiting until you are married. There are many benefits to this choice.
2006-06-25 00:43:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither....Your Husband
2006-06-25 00:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by snowangel03ak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone you have known for over 20 minutes
2006-06-25 00:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should definitely be your husband. The longer you wait, the better it will be.
2006-06-25 00:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by Dave S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which ever one u fell safest with and which ever one treats u the best and you've known longer .
2006-06-25 00:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by mzsweetpea91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dad
2006-06-25 00:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by dreamsong67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband!!!!
believe me...
2006-06-25 00:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by vhernice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋