I am very strongly attracted by a preety girl in my workplace. We have a age difference of 5 years. I am totally confused and don't know whether she likes me or not. We have very little interaction. Sometimes I think that I'm average looking guy...why will she be ever interested in me, when so many other good looking guyz will be interested in her.Sometimes the other way around that she may be interested in me. I am too shy and don't have guts to ask her straight forward because she may tell her friend about it and the whole office will know about it..I will be in a very embarrasing situation then.Plz help me and advice what should i do. How can i tell her my feelings? How can I know if she is interested in me?
2006-06-24 17:35:21 · 8 answers · asked by phill s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi. U really cant test sumbody on how they feel for..id rather suggest u to NOT straight away go and tell her ur feelings for her..but im not saying u should never tell her..try to b friends with her..ur love for her seems very true,there r sum people in this world who go only for looks and not for the real person they r. Try to b frnds with her then mayb ud b able to make out her feelings for u as a frnd or even sumthin more than that.Dont bother about what other people think..its their problem..u mind ur own business..and forget abt what the world arnd u thinks.All The Best.Tke Cre.
2006-06-24 17:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Getting involved with a co-worker in my opinion is asking for trouble. Office gossip is terrible without adding office romance to the picture. I have few rules in my life, but dating someone I work with is one that I've always stuck with. Good luck in whatever you choose to do. Always be true to yourself!
2006-06-25 00:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce yourself, get to know her, chat about the weather/sport/music, find out what makes her tick...
Hell, just ask her out.. If she is interested, you'll get a positive response... If not, you'll know...
Oh, and find out if your company has a "NO DATING" policy with colleagues... Some companies frown upon "relationships" in the workplace...
2006-06-25 04:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the bull by the horns and ask her out. do it soon tho' as you risk making it into something bigger and scarier in your head and will invest more emotion in it - so if does go **** up it'll hurt more. don't give too much away about you being a soft chuff tho' because if she is a ***** that'll just be fuel to the fire
2006-06-25 00:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by blank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start emailing her short notes asking her how she is and all the usual stuff that small talk entails.
If she resopnds a couple times ask her if she would like to meet for coffee sometime. and just relax.
2006-06-25 00:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the saying "don't sh!@#t where you eat"? Applies here as well. If you are uncomfortable, then you should NOT approach her at all. Something is telling you this is not right. When it is the right time, and the right girl, you will know.
2006-06-25 00:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by jay23_33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her and let her know that it's really hard for you to ask and you don't want the whole office to know. maybe she'll say yes, maybe she'll say no, but if she's like you say, then she probably would understand your situation.
2006-06-25 00:38:14 · answer #7 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must to ask her before it is too late.
2006-06-25 01:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by seven seas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋