I mean we are close but sometimes he gets mad but he like closes himself down. He wont talk to anyone until hes done being mad. I wish he would open up to me. Anybody have any ideas?
2006-06-24 17:25:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you must accepts him as he is and trust him
Chooses the best time to talk about this with him
And remember that it's so difficult to the man to be opened
Because we don't like to repent of something we said.
And BELIEVE Me once he gets ready he will open little by little
2006-06-24 18:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by mopil77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just a guy thing, although admittedly it's hard to deal with. When they are angry, they go away to work it out by themselves. They don't like to talk about it like women. Read Men are from Mars & Women are from Venus.
2006-06-25 00:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by BB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think thats something that needs to come on his own.If he wants to talk to you, he will in his own time.Your only dating and be that I mean , you dont know his whole life story yet.Maybe there are things in his past that cause him to clam up, that he isnt ready to talk about just yet.I am sure, when he is ready, he will come around.
2006-06-25 00:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever it is you desire in a relationship do more so til he gets it hat it is what you want too. if he still doesn't get it, then stop doing something he is used to getting but do explain why b4 you stop. it is disrespectful of him not to open up. he knows himself best, if his anger would get the best of him it is good for him to cool off 1st.
"dry dirt brushes right off, but mud sinks in and ruins the garment"
2006-06-25 00:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Spock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was the same way when i was younger, my father was not a pleasant person. he would be nice around my friends. so i never told anyone because i thought it made me weak, and i didn't think anyone would understand. my guess is he has bigger issues that he is keeping closed off.
2006-06-25 00:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's open up, he'd be the firs t guy in history to magically open up all of a sudden. From my experience, what you see is what you get.
2006-06-25 00:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by Batmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different when they get mad on what they do. Guess the best advice woud be not to piss him off.
2006-06-25 00:29:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While he isn't angry tell him how you feel. Tell him that even when angry people can still argue, talk, or yell and that is better than being silent. Silence doesn't resolve anything.
2006-06-25 00:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oww.. don't you worry... just understand him. But if you feel that it's just aint right. You better ask him for a space.., for a while..
Sometimes, we need to let go of someone to realize it's importance to us.
2006-06-25 00:32:07 · answer #9 · answered by vhernice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks it was the best way, wait 'till he calm down and talk to him.. Don't push him to tell you what happened to him..
2006-06-25 00:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋