I like my bf but this other guy is really cute. My bf isn't bad looking but sometimes people make fun of the way he looks. All of the girls at my school really like the guy that just askeed me out. They ALLLL want to go out with him. My bf is really nice and has a great personality but i dont really now the other guy exept that hes hot and is the quarter back on the football team. I really need some help!!!! but please i really dont want to ruin my reputation.
2006-06-24 17:13:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have two choices:
1.) Be true to the guy you KNOW. Looks are superficial and will eventually fade, but a good person will always be a good person.
2.) Dump your boyfriend BEFORE you go after the hot guy and take your chances that he won't get you pregnant, beat you up or just plain treat you like dirt.
Good luck.
Oh and if you pick 2, then anything bad that happens..well, its your own fault. Sorry.
2006-06-24 17:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by contrafilms 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about it. The "popular" guy can get anyone he wants. Therefore he has probably had TONS of GFs. Also he may go out with you one day and the very next day being seeing someone else. Decide not only on looks but on the character of the guys. Also if you dump your bf for the hotter guy everyone will know. And then if the hotter guy dumps you later you wont be able to get your bf back (most likely) and you will have embarrassed yourself in front of the whole school by being alone later (possibly). Figure out if this so called hotter guy is a decent guy. Not just to your face, but what you hear from others about the guy. Also how many gfs has he had in the past days? weeks? months? Has it been a long time since he had a GF? Or is he with a new girl everyday?
2006-06-24 17:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is all about having fun and eventually looking for someone to marry. You are not a bad person for keeping your options open. If you are really happy with your current guy then let the rest go, because it seems a bit shallow to dump him to improve your social status with your friends. Why would you ruin your reputation? Are you talking about a one night hook up with the guy? Ya, that could do some damage.
2006-06-24 17:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by marilynsplaytime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well give the other guy a try but keep it on the down low and see if it works.If your bf makes u happy thats all that matters u shouldn't worry about what other people think,don't mess up a good relationship if u already have one.Your friends may just want thats probably why there always making rude comments.
2006-06-24 17:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by mzsweetpea91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as far as ruining your reputation if you break up with your bf because he isnt good looking enough to go out with the better looking guy your shallow if your not interested in your bf and actually the fact that your even interested in the other guy is answer enough to that but just dating someone because of there social status it very shallow date them because your attracted to them and there personality not how high you can get on the social scale at work you'll learn that how popular you are is a waste of time later in life
2006-06-24 17:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by joe b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK 1st of all you reputation.is already messed up, you went out wit a ugly boy, but please lets not be superficial. another thing, girl you need to make up your mind are you gonna be a good person or a plastic, because you are already questioning your self for other people, you don't even know this guy but that he's hot, yo he could be dumb as Sh#* and cant hold a convo. I need you to stop lookin at what other people think and look inside you. who make you smile more, who has done more for you in the past month?
2006-06-24 17:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry what other people think about you!! If you like your bf, you should stay with him. You shouldn't go out with a guy just because he's cute, some really cute guys have no personality or are often very insensitive. Relationships are not just how cute you think your boyfriend is...relationships are based on trust, honesty, if you like that person or not, and communication.
2006-06-24 17:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by poeticjustice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real talk. Say yes, take a chance on it. It seems as if you and your boyfriend have complexes within each other. You know you, so do what you feel. Because by asking others about your relationaship drama, just causes more drama. And if your boyfriend is a "G", he's already doing what your asking and possibly chopping it up with your best friends right now, while our chatting with us. Think about it!
2006-06-24 17:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by amissirrahc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the reason a lot of guys think girls are very, to say the least and not cuss, superficial.
Have fun being treated as an object.
2006-06-24 17:31:30 · answer #9 · answered by Maverick_Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks aren't everything. Also peer pressure to be seen with the hottest looking guy shows alot of immaturity. Most of those guys who everybody thinks is so hot thinks the same thing and are stuck on themselves and think of only one thing.
Ask yourself do you want someone who really likes you and thinks about you or do you want to be another notch on some jerks belt?
2006-06-24 17:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by ornery146 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋