i just broke up with my long distance relationship g/f for not answering her phone or emails. this is a constant thing. did i do the right thing. i go to extremes to try to contact her.
2006-06-24 16:23:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it depends.. does she ever call u? does she ever e-mail u? have u asked her what is going on? she maybe working or school something that she misses your calls/e-mails.... i know i miss my hubby but it's that i want to but i have kids, i have to do everything.... i'm the mom and dad right now... my hubby is iraq.... sooo there is times i miss him when he trys to reach me... sooo if u love her go get her.... u can work it out... i don't think this is what u wanted to hear but try and talk to her... if she does not reply ever move on she is just trying to play lil kid games.... u don't need that... i wish the best 4 u =)
2006-06-24 16:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you definitely did the right thing. In a long distance relationship you don't have that face to face contact everyday so you need the phone calls and emails to make it work. Move on, you'll be happier for it. Good luck!!
2006-06-24 16:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by ladyrn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u did the right thing. i mean if she doesn't answer your phone calls or your emails then she up to no good. besides sometimes long distance relationships don't last long anyways no matter how much u care for them. b/c intentions; curiosity starts to grow in your mind. wondering what she doing and how she spends her day or if she missess u. but to answer that question is if she miss u and couldn't go a day not thinkin about u she would call u almost everyday.
2006-06-24 16:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by ladyparadise_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have found someone right next door and is now into a hot and heavy relationship and the last thing she needs is you pestering her and messing things up.
You did the right thing, it just sounds like it took you a while to get the message she was sending.
2006-06-24 16:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you're long distance the phone and email is all you have and that's not right that she never answered you. i would probably do the same thing.
2006-06-24 16:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by MissingLI21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if she was trying to avoid you, so yeah you did the right thing. If she really wanted to be with you she would have made an attempt to stay in contact with you.
2006-06-24 16:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yea. You did the right thing. If she's "too busy" to talk to you, you don't need her. Never look desperate around a woman. It doesn't look good. If she wants you, let her come crawling back. It's only fair. And one other thing... take a LONG TIME to answer her if she calls or e-mail's you. What goes around come around babe!
2006-06-24 16:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by Autumn_Anne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely. No answer usually means the cowards way out, avoiding confrontation.
Another good question is, how many times did she called you?
If the answer is zero, you absolutely did the right thing.
2006-06-24 16:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mary7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? I had the same problem with a guy once. I was totally in love with him and he claimed to love me too but he would CHOOSE to not answer my calls or e-mails. He always had an excuse but in the end we split up because I felt neglected.
2006-06-24 16:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah shes probably not worth it because i would love somebody that would actually try to be in contact with me , you did the right thing and i hope that yu heal from the pain fast good luck
2006-06-24 16:28:21 · answer #10 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋