He's in love wit me im his world but..what if i dont feel the way i use to about him? what should i do?

Question

ok i have been dating this guy and at first i fell head over heels over him and i loved him with all my heart! and he loves me! but i dont know i juss dont feel the same like i use to! i mean he tells me and shows me that he loves me and i belive him! i told him i loved him but i juss dont really feel the same anymore. we have so much in common that its boring! and im not looking for that! i might still be in love and juss scared to admit it! i dont know! im so confused! i mean i care for him and i would never try to hurt him! he says he wants to marry me, have kids with me, and juss be with me forever. he said with out me he would die! i dont know what to do? do i stay wit him hoping for the love to come back? or do i leave him? please help me i really need advice!!!

Answer 1

You know what? Screw it. Stay with him, marry him, and live your whole life unhappy.

Answer 2

Well you didn't say how old you were... But you can't just keep living your life unhappy. If your unhappy and don't feel the same then you need to stop things it's not fair to him or you. Theres 2 ways you can settle this... Work out your problems tell him how you feel and maybe your problems will be fixed over time. Or just break up with him,, if he really cares about you the way he says he does he should understand the fact that your not happy and want to see the best for you even if it hurts him. Best of luck!

Answer 3

you say you care for him..

but if you stay and dont truly love him, would that be right to him ?

if you want whats best for him why not let him move on and find someone who does love him?

i still love and care for my ex but not in that way we broke up almost 7.5 years ago, almost 7 i have been with hubby, we moved on to find true loves in our lives, we keep in contact as friends but that doesn't work for everyone

Answer 4

tell him you cant see him as much and apoligize