Oh my gosh. Me and my best friend have been friends for 9 YEARS!!! And for the last couple week she has been talking about this guy named Cameron. She is soo obessed with him. But she is way too shy. Shes never asked a guy out by her self. She talks about MARRYING HIM. We was at a pool party and Cameron was there. The other girls were asking Cameron if he liked my Best friend. And then i went to talk to him about carrie. And he told me he was aiming to go out with me. He is really cute and nice. He about 2 years oler than my bf and 1 year older than me.Should I go out with this guy? I like him but I do not want my best friend to be mad at me. Should i wait till she doesnt like him anymore to date him?
2006-06-24 15:54:41 · 11 answers · asked by Megan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-06-24 15:59:59 · update #1
My best friend cant keep a boyfriend for a week and i can. The guys going to hurt her anyways by not liking her and by liking me. Shes going to be mad anyways once she finds out he likes me.
2006-06-24 16:05:26 · update #2
I have feelings. GOSH I love carrie like a sister but we do have our moments.
2006-06-24 16:06:56 · update #3
NO I SAID I CAN KEEP A BOYFRIEND... I DONT HAVE A BOYFRIEND.
2006-06-24 16:20:00 · update #4
don't do it...it'll ruin your friendship. Another guy will come along that you like just as much. I guess you have to decide if he's worth losing your best friend over. OR try talking to her first, and see how she feels about you making a move on him. I bet she won't like it though.
2006-06-24 16:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by ladyrn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That would be wrong for a couple of reasons.
1.She's ur bestfriend and even thought he may not like her it still would be wrong, she will never forgive u , she will be so hurt that u did this to her knowing how she feels about this guy
2. U said u have a boyfriend
U say he's really cute and nice guy, so is that a good enough reason for u to lose a bestfriend and a boyfriend, just because he's cute and nice? What about ur boyfriend is he not cute and nice.
And how about your bestfriend of 9 nines yr Carrie, so what if she keeps talking about marrying this guy, it's just that she really likes him a lot. And if u go what with him it will be break her heart that her bestfriend went out with a guy she likes, she feel betrayed and that would make u a backstabber and not what one would call a bestfriend or friend
So u may want to think about if it's worth u losing a bestfriend and boyfriend
2006-06-24 23:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont u have feelings at all she's ur bestfriend for 9 years and ur a traitor if u do that
2006-06-24 23:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by satomi d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Guys will come and go, but friends are forever!
2006-06-24 23:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by Catfishchic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on who is more important you him or your friend but honestly if your friend is more important than you should tell him that and let him know she likes him
2006-06-24 23:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is truley your best friend i would not date him I have had theat happen to me many times and I was very upset and lost friends for it I could never do that to my best friend now it is just wrong!!
2006-06-24 23:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by kelbel73183 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it will not work. don't mess up your relationship of 9 years for a guy you just meet. trust me.
2006-06-24 23:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by star21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me it wont work...ur best friend will kill u .... i dated use to date this girl named sarah and we broke up after a year....2 years later i wanted to go out with her friend Tracey, so i asked her out...tracey told sarah that i asked her out...and sarah started saying bullshit about me to tracey, after 3 days she told me , that she couldnt go out with me
2006-06-24 23:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by Kamy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-06-24 22:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by aussie chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-06-24 22:57:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋