why do some people hurt others, including their loved ones, over and over again? do they not care how the other person feels? they know that they are hurting the other person, so why do they do that?
2006-06-24 15:51:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think they do it because they are some what scared of themselves...and maybe they are testing the other one...(not on purpose) but testing them....to see if they are really ment for each other but in this case i feel you and your loved one are ment for each other....you may have your problems everyone does...maybe a little more than most people but you are ment for each other. and you should love each other forever! you only have one lifetime we should all live it to the fullest! and im sure that the person who you love soo much loves you just the same even more....and is really sorry for what he did. he prolly knows that he cant fix it but wishes he could. i wish for you 2 to be happy and to have a WONDERFUL life together. you are ment for each other!
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2006-06-24 19:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Adoarable Butt 2 · 18⤊ 0⤋
Why does the world turn? Why are birds called "birds"? Because this is how it all must work I suppose. I would much rather ask the question do people exist? All we see and have are these body objects; hurt and pain may not even exist! This is all the delima of being human, to be human, we are still understanding what this thing you are calling "hurt" is in the first place.
2006-06-24 15:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by The Witten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They might be thinking of only how much pain they are feeling right then and want to lash out at others in order to sort of shift the pain. People who are in pain or angry aren't thinking like they would normally do because they can become so wrapped up in their emotions they can't think of anything or anyone else. Also some people can just be plain mean and like inflicting hurt in order to make themselves feel better or show that they have the power to make other feel pain.
2006-06-24 15:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by moma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very easy to hurt love ones because they love you. Ppl hurt other ppl because they have yet to be scorn by other person. Once they felt the hurt from a loved one all shall change in all due time.
2006-06-24 15:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by ronce_1118 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's their perogative. Most of the time, they hurt their friends and family in an indirect consequence that has resulted from something else they felt they needed to do. I don't have any examples, because I don't feel like elaborating, but I think you might get the picture.
2006-06-24 15:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by jeff_is_sexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just get their "power jollies" off of it. It makes them feel like they are in control of another, and that they have the power to please or hurt the person, who is emotionally dependent upon them for hapiness.
I have been down the road more often then I would care to admit honey. I finally came to the conclusion that nobody is worth my being that emotionally attached to.
2006-06-24 15:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone does such things its because they have A need to make them selves feel better.They cant cope with others being happy do to low self esteem and things of that nature.Think back to bullies when you where in school.Why did they do it?Its the same thing.To make them selves feel better they must make others feel bad.Misery loves company.
2006-06-24 16:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People want to be loved, truly; yet people are constantly needing
to be reminded, that they also need, to feel and be told, that "they"
are loved, by their partner. Continously and repeatedly...,
Keep in mind, that nice innocent jestures of accomodating
servitude, for your loved one, can really go a long way.
Men, on one hand, just want simple pleasures and
moderate spending, not wanting to be trapped in a
keeping up the Jones'.., or be thought of as being weak,
or p.w.'d (explitive) in a "loving relationship". Simply put,
you must want to know your partner, through and through.
Knowing is growing, growing is loving; and learning, to
appreciate your loved one, without condition or judgement.
You must love your partner, as you would want them to
love you; relaxed, sincere, with honor and the joy of life.
Women, on the other hand, love romance, dinners, flowers,
candy, vacations, jewelry and nice sunsets; all of which
are a part of their vivid traditional values seen on TV,
growing up in the great U.S.of A. Women are more cerebral
in their mind set of love.., men are more "loin" oriented;
as part of our evolving heritage.
When both partners can recogonize each others differences
and pleasures; then love can really grow and blossom. If both
partners are trusting and loving..., then Loving your partner
means; loving them for what you felt early on, and loving
them..., "just the way they are".
Nice words = Nice People
RT & CB (c) 2016
2016-09-15 16:55:46 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although its obserd but people love it when people get hurt or feel pain it brings joy to them and if they care for u when they hurt u then they feel pain also
2006-06-24 15:55:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do it to show they cant expresss they feelings to agirl n sometimes its harder than it seemes but mayb 1 day he will come up like a man in let u know his real reasons
2006-06-24 15:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋