Girfriend never wants to sleep with me anymore, bad?

Question

I've been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half. we hardly ever do anything anymore, maybe once or twice a month tops. id definetly like to do it more often. she always has an excuse like "im too tired," "im not in the mood," "im sore/have cramps" etc. think she has lost interest, or whats up? any ideas on how to resolve the situation? thanks

i guess what im getting at is this normal for an 18 month relationship or are we on the rocks?

Ready: yeah i ask for it a lot, basically bc i never get any anymore and she was kinda ticked about taht the other day. but i definetly never get any if i dont try

Answer 1

welcome to life...hehehe haven't you heard that the farther on in your relationship the less you have sex?

Answer 2

Well have you sat her down and asked her why she doesn't want to do anything anymore? Take this from a female who has done the same thing in the past. I wasn't interested anymore and I would always make up some kind of excuse of why I didn't want to. Maybe she has just lost interest. I'm that case you need to talk to her and if she can't give you a real reason then maybe things just can't work out for you 2.

Answer 3

Maybe she is bothered in a way. 1Have you been doing things that annoy her constantly? 2.Have you been showing interest in another girl? 3.Have you seen her show interest in another man? 4. Has this streak been going on before?
Answer yes to any of these, here is what you should know.

1. Stop it. She is annoyed and she wants you to stop.
2. Stop dating her. She may be envious of this girl. Jealousy is poison.
3. She may have started dating some other guy.
4. If this has happened before and it stoped for some time then started again, it's over for you two.

Answer 4

First you need to talk to her and not to us because we are not there. And depending on her job maybe they are not excuses but real. I know sometimes I don't feel like, or to tired. And I love having it with my boyfriend. So in my opinion I think you just need to talk to her. Ask her are you bored, is there someone else? What can I do to change the way you feel.

The question to you is, is sex the most important thing to you? Do you ask for it all the time? Girls hate that just so you know.

Answer 5

Sometimes after you are with someone for awhile, the sex just isn't all that anymore. You need to spice it up and get her interested again. Why not suggest going to a porn shop and buying some new toys, that's always fun. You can always watch a porno with her and hope that that gets her in the mood.

Answer 6

Simple, respect it. All men want sex, just like I do. But respect her for it. Don't rotate your relationship around sex, or you'll lose her. Ask her what turns her on. Keep it ripe though. ASK HER WHAT SHE LIKES IN BED, and work it. If you know what she wants, and you do it like she wants. And vise versa, boss you have to open your mouth and tell her what you want too. let her know. And it may just open you up to a whole new court. If she wants some crazy feaky stuff, don't laugh or get scared of it. TRY IT, you may dig it too. And yes, it sounds like your boring her. OPEN up and ask her when you both are in the mood!

Answer 7

i would definitly say it's time to have a conversation with her. i'd be gentle but ask her about it outright. sounds like your relationship is dissolving into more of a friends/sort of FWB.

Answer 8

i think ur girlfriend has another bf or maybe she slept with another men too bad for u

Answer 9

she might be getting bored.try something new and do something that she loves to do like going to the movies or somethin like that

Answer 10

probebly you can not get her pleasure, read some book and learn more about sex, sex is not just put something to something else