ok i love my boyfriend very much but im not gonna see him for the whole summer... all we did was talk on the phone twice since june 9th... im afraid that he will find another girl in the time hes not with me.. even though he tells me he loves me and kissed me all the time when i saw him.... im scared.. but i love him... what should i do????
2006-06-24 15:36:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it seems like a real long time. If he truly loves you . You wont have nothing to worrie about. I am sure he has about the same feelings as you at this time. I think you need to let him know how you feel the next time you both talk. I think it will help the both of yous feel better about all of this. Good luck.......
2006-06-24 15:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all stop looking for something to happen because then it will - its like what ever you put out in the world will come back to you - so if you believe he will find another girl then he will. Second thing is if he does what can you physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually do about it. We as young women and women think that we can control "our" man's thoughts, actions, etc. and that is not true. You can only change you. Everyone has the right to make choices for themselves whether they are good, bad, or against what we want them to do.
What you can do is stay positive, find something of interest to completely lose yourself in and deal with the 'what if' when it happens - u have a lot of people here that will help u through whatever!
2006-06-24 22:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by camlankolche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're scared, then the relationship is over. You should only stay in relationships if you are sure that he feels the same way about you that you feel about him! You obviously don't trust him completely, and that's not a good thing. And besides, you sound pretty young! Why hold yourself back all summer with a boyfriend you can't even see?
2006-06-24 22:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by stefan_hulce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you have been with him. If you are afraid he will find somebody new than maybe you don't have a strong enough relationship to make it through the summer apart any ways. if you do really love him maybe you should call him and tell him your feelings so that he can tell you what his are and then you won't have to worry one way or the other you will know.
Best of Luck
2006-06-24 22:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends how far he is away from you like if he is pretty close you can probably go surprise him with a visit and make sure he doesnt get another girl and also tell him how much you love him and write alot of letters and try to talk to him as much as you can.
2006-06-24 22:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by babiigiirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and not worry too much. You are probably making to much of this situation. Your boyfriend hasn't given you a reason to think that he may stray. Just relax and don't worry about things that aren't even an issue. Good Luck in your situation.
2006-06-24 22:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him. If he says that he loves you than you have to trust that. If you two truely love eachother than that won't matter, you both know who the other one is coming home to. So just relax and trust him.
2006-06-24 22:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF YOU KNOW YOUR BOYFRIEND,THEN DONT WORRY!BUT IF YOU ENCOUNTER SOME BUL..SH!! IN THE PAST LIKE CACTHING HIM LOOK AT GIRLS THEN YOU HAVE A PROBLEM!DOWN WITH THE CLOWN!HES A JOKE!
2006-06-24 22:42:33 · answer #8 · answered by oscaricp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him then trust if he loves you back then he wont do anything and he wont find another girl.
2006-06-24 22:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him every now and then just to keep u happy.
2006-06-24 22:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by Lookinstr8over 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋