my friend from halfway around the world likes me and told me he's fallen in love wit me......i see him every two years and i cant say i dont have feelings for him wen im wit him but im only in highschool so is there any point in going anywhere wit it and if not then wut do i say to him.?
2006-06-24 15:27:14 · 10 answers · asked by soccer4life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg, we have the SAME situation. my guy friend lives half way around the world but we email, and we 2 are in high school, the last time i saw was last summer. Aug. 1 will be a year since we last saw each other.
i WOULD try and get with him only if you have strong feelings for this guy. u dont' want to get with and lead him on, u know. i hate to think this myself but, your most likely to fall in love with someone in your own country.
i wish i could see my friend every two years, but we only email which is a bummer...and i don't know if he himself has that special someone in his country. u have a tough one. i had thought many times, if we were to get married, where would we live, in my country or his. it'd be a big change for the both of us since there are thousands of miles between us. and i thought of making him an american citizen if he were to move to the US with me. wish i could help more.
2006-06-24 15:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Alexis Samira 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im engaged to a girl in the philippines. we met about a year ago, so weve been seeing each other for 365, and only seen each other about 30 days of that, and not altogether. so yeah, love can survive distance and time if the couple really loves each other. but its a LOT of work, a lot of time reassuring one another, a lot of sacrifice and devotion. trust me, when your love is far apart, youll see 2X as many couples walkign together, trust me...it sux hahah... but its worth it. I thank God for her everyday, and I could never be with another person. Were getting married in December. If you REALLY love this guy, it can work. if your so-so or not sure, then its gonna be hard to keep it up. you need to decide that for yourself, how you really feel about this guy, and go from there
2006-06-24 22:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by af4sguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him ur flattered and like him too but it would be best for now to not be serious about each other. when u are older if u still have feelings for each other work on the relationship and how u can meet and possibly be together. u are young and feelings change. enjoy someone u can see touch and feel and develop ur personality more before getting serious about someone especially when they are so far away
2006-06-24 22:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by ^_§|èëp¡ñg_^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to move closer to you - or you are moving on
no sense in trying to have a relationship with someone half way around the world
2006-06-24 22:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to get tied down with a long distance relationship....
2006-06-24 22:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by Couple of Cents 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..you know, you should give it some time..
you might decide and regret it later on because you decided on it too early.
you're still in high school so you've still got your whole life ahead of you
2006-06-24 22:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by liana-- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat do u think about it? wait and watch(don't say him u r in love.. just say u can't make ur mind).. when u think u have found someone u think u love.. say him u don't think so any more..
and yes.. personal experience says.. even years of relationship gets weakend by distance and I have seen many breakups.. humans are just selfish and impatient.
2006-06-24 22:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by masku darling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but the reall question is do u like him too.
2006-06-24 22:29:44 · answer #8 · answered by Dorky K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes thats right do u like him ??
2006-06-24 22:31:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so sweet
2006-06-24 22:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋