i broke up with my bf of four months but totally regret it! i thought we werent spending enough time together so i broke up with him now he wont even talk to me i told him i made a mistake and im so sorry but nothing. what do i do i still really love him!
2006-06-24 15:17:05 · 23 answers · asked by ♥ I love you babe ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't make someone change. If you love him, tell him. Then give him some time. Either he comes back, and you get a lucky second chance, or he doesn't, and you learned a good life lesson for your next relationship. Think about your actions before you do them. You can't break up with him, break his heart and just expect him to come running back when you want him to. You don't have to spend every waking moment with someone to prove to them you love them. It's the things you say and do when you are together that defines that.
Good luck.
2006-06-24 15:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by jimmy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this wasn't a mistake. this advance right into a style you made to your guy or woman motives. Calling it something else doesn' t replace it. you're untrue. Now you're making excuses so which you do no longer ought to deal the consequence out of your decision. in view that he hasn't had the stable experience to drop you, you need to comprehend that your decision is a sturdy indicator that considerable replace has handed off on your courting. How long it rather is been modern-day technique this variation is a query. does not incredibly remember. The replace is genuine and you need to stand it.
2016-10-31 10:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you changed your mind about how much time you were spending together? If not then you made the right decision for you. It sounds like it was the right decision for him too, since he's not trying to get past your "mistake". Maybe this is what he intended all along, for you to break up with him.
2006-06-24 15:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really cares about you...he will understand. Give him time. At least tell him you want to work toward the relationship as friends if nothing else...if its meet to be things will become more then friends all over again. just remind him who you are.. and that u do care about him. Tell him if your both willing to make changes...YOU: talking to him about problems before you act...and HIM: giving you what you need in a relationship(more personal (alone) time. then, everything should work out perfectly
2006-06-24 15:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by smashedladybug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we do things for a reason. deep down inside you did because you wanted space. You still love because doing that time you developed a bond. I feel that maybe just try and be his friend ask him to go do little things if you really really really want him back gradually build what you lost back his feelings were hurt he thought things were good. If its really meant to be love will find its way home. next time talk to him about the way you feel
2006-06-24 15:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell hi why you wanted to break up with him in the first place? If so then tell him how you feel now. Tell him that you will do almost anything to make it up to him. Just let him know that you really really really want to get back to together with him again.
2006-06-24 15:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by inuyasha_harrypotter_frankie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want him back, show him. The problem is, you broke up with him and he may not be interested in getting back together wondering if you'll just dump him again - or he may already be with someone else.
2006-06-24 15:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by scottinboston95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i was in the same position all i did was let him come to me i didnt go to him it took a while for him to relize but he still came back for me! so do what i did wait for him and he'll come and say something eventually!some people are good with it and say "i dont wait for no niga they need to grow up and be a man"and went to someone else but i didnt i waited a few days or months and he came back to me!
love ya girl,
princess
2006-06-24 15:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by lou lou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's meant to be, he'll come around. Give him time. While you're doing this though, try to move on with your life. He may come back, he may not. You need to prepare yourself to be ok either way!
2006-06-24 15:21:25 · answer #9 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him one more time, if he doesn't respond then move on. Don't waste your time on someone who could care less,because life is too short and there are so many men and opportunities awaiting you.
2006-06-24 15:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋