im mexican and im into black females. when i go 2 the club and try 2 get a girl 2 dance with me most of the time its no. but when i get out on the dance floor and get down, thats when they pay attention to me. im a really good dancer so it makes sense. but, is it bad that these women are judging me beforehand??? does it have 2 do with my skin color or race??? im not the best looking guy and also not the worst looking guy trust me. i look pretty fly when i go out too so its not the way i dress. can anyone gimme a response???
2006-06-24 15:09:31 · 8 answers · asked by veedizzle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't believe it's you that has the problem. I believe it's the women you meet, that have the problems. Where do you meet these women? Pay close attention to the environment you meet women, it can tell a lot about who they are. Not judging them, because you are in the same place; however, observing them.
The world we live in today is so judgmental and criticizing, that nowadays you have to prove yourself worthy before someone (men or women) will talk, look, or listen to you.
I go through the same thing, I feel my disadvantage is because I am a plus size woman and African-American. Men do not ask me to dance, say you look nice, smell good, or even say ONE WORD TO ME.
I am the type of woman, I enjoy getting my hair done, smelling good, looking and feeling beautiful, purrrtty white teef's, and I can't even get a man to say *$#%% you stink, HE JUST WON'T SAY NOTHING. (just jokn) I dont want him to say that, but what I am saying is I feel your pain, its not just males who get rejected its women also.
Speaking of that let me share this: I met a guy who only lived in town for approx. 1 month, I ASKED HIM OUT ON A DATE. He said, NO, he was tired he wanted to stay home. The next day I spoke with him, he was telling me about his friends coming to pick him up and they were at a b-b-que. Man did I feel rejected.
So you see it's not just you....
Take Care
2006-06-24 16:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Florida 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno know. I want to be nice and say that, "No it's not your race", but I think I would be lying. I think your race plays a role in the whole "stand-offish" vibe, but for the most part, maybe the girls are trying to feel you out. It is not to often that a Latin dude like yourself can turn the dance floor out. So, keep up the good work papi!
2006-06-24 15:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by she_rough_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not gonna lie. black women generally love black men. but if they see a guy freakin it on the dance floor they cant help but be attracted, no matter what the race. we know the secret. good on the dance floor good in bed! so keep doin what ur doin. we'll flock to you!
2006-06-24 15:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it's not judging as much as it is being careful. It mostly depends on the way you approach a black woman. Slow and easy is the key. Just change your approach or how you present yourself at first siting. Hang in there
2006-06-24 15:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by faydell p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus be pimpin' bout it.Who gives a **** about what a ***** thinks.Be yo self and a woman who findfs you attractive is worth it.Maybe find other girls instead might work.
2006-06-24 15:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by starrblazing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just being stereotypical. Nothing is wrong with u. I bet u that one day someone will like u for who u are not what u look like.
2006-06-24 15:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by hairless_kat90210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because your bald . Kojak. I'm not a black female i just thought i should answer
2006-06-24 15:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by lucasone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im wite srry
2006-06-24 15:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by angel_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋