2006-06-24 15:01:54 · 9 answers · asked by way2clase 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend and I split up for a little while and during that time he sleep with someone else. He says that it only happens once and it was while we were broken up but I don't know if I should let it go or let him go. I've had some people tell me not to let it bother me because we weren't together and others say it's a really big deal. I love him and he's an altogether good person but i'm having a hard time getting past this. HELP!!!!!
2006-06-24 15:28:09 · update #1
It's better to sort out your emotions before hopping in to another person's bed. Especially if you are worried about hurting someone you are no longer with might have some unresolved issues.
If you are in the situation you don't have to accept and if the person does not understand that then it is probably someone you don't want to be involved with anyway.
2006-06-24 15:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by MsItSeams 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you split up or broke up? If you are split up then u shouldnt see other people. That just means u are taking time off. But if you are broke up all the way and seeing other guys then u can do whatever u want. But remember that no guy will want his girl back after a break up if she sleeps with someone else. But thats just if u ever want to get back together.
2006-06-24 22:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lookinstr8over 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, It's okay to sleep with someone else if you are broken up. Just as long as you respect and pull yourself together in the morning. Better yet, try it with others at th same time, then ask youself that question again.
2006-06-24 22:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by amissirrahc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt use your body as a garbage can, do you know how many diseases are out there heres a shocker for ya AIDS you shouldnt sleep with anyone until you are in love with that person and they love you back the same way and you are planning to spend alot of time with them, not wham bam thank you mam, dont let anyone do this to you, good luck
2006-06-24 22:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by jayrok027 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume that you are not a couple any more,so basicly you are free to do what you want. However,causal intercourse is not a good habit to get into. So why are you sleeping with some one else? You just doing the rebound thing?
2006-06-24 22:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by avionics8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean "should it happen" what are you an animal with no self respect? Sex is not a hobby, why is it treated as casual as a hug now day?
2006-06-24 22:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't jump in bed right after a break up.Your vulnerable,and looking for comfort.I'm not sure what you mean by "Should you accept it if it happens?" What is "IT?"
2006-06-24 22:10:17 · answer #7 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to sleep with the person you are legally wed to.
2006-06-24 22:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep with anyone immediately after you break up. You are not emotional ready, so don't cave into your sexual urges.
2006-06-24 22:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by clarkhj70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋