What if you were dating someone 7 years older then you. Except they thought it was only a two year difference. The thing is i don't want to tell them abt the situation cuz i REALLY like this guy. I need some advice.
2006-06-24 14:54:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your both over 18 i see no problem but a relationship needs trust and honesty to work. just my take on things
2006-06-24 14:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
The truth is that age is just a number, as long as it is legal. If you are both okay with the age difference it should be fine. You should definitely tell him because if he finds out on his own it won't be good news. Even if the age difference doesn't bother him, the fact that you deceived him will. Explain that if everything else is fine then age is just a small detail that should have no bearing on how the two of you really feel about each other. If he can't except this it is really better to move on because keeping this in will really weigh you down.
2006-06-24 22:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by femme fatale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem unless you are only 15 - it doesn't matter how big the gap is if you like him and he likes you - if you're an adult then enjoy the moment and live life to the full, both of you will be better off.
I'm guessing you're adult enough to be considering a serious relationship otherwise 7 years is a problem but as long as you're over 15 or 16 years old you can have a great time - I'm 17 years older than my girlfriend and we have the greatest sex life and social life you can imagine - I'm Australian and she's Chinese but that doesn't matter either.
Good luck
jerry_grey2002@yahoo.com.au
Living in Zhong Shan, Guang Dong China
2006-06-24 22:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by jerry_grey2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him to your home and get over the bed..then start kissing and just before starting sex show him your birth certificate.. i think he will never leave you naked he will break the certificate... otherwise if you will tell him the truth he will spit over his """""""" and shout at it ....
it was a joke....
"just tell him the truth and let him decide it what to do next, by the way dont think only he is doing something for you because he is younger then you.... you are doing something for him actually you are elder and still loving him WOW "
2006-06-24 22:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by BAD GUY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no probs.. well hang in there.. try to find the guys mentality.. whether he really cares about the age.. if he doesn't casually spill out... and if he does.. let him know and say that u r ready to discuss it out...
2006-06-24 21:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by masku darling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋