I am 15
and he is too
is this serious?
2006-06-24 14:53:53 · 16 answers · asked by tlmfrancis@verizon.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I m Abit Old Fashioned,
When It Comes To Some Things.
I Think A Boy Or Man Should Make The Call,
Till A Relationship Has Developed, Or A Friendship.
Once He Calls You,
There's Your Chance To Be Open,
And Tell Him All That's On Your Mind.
He May Shock You, And Tell You First,
Just Take It Slow..
Good Luck.
~*~*~*~*~Peace.
2006-06-24 15:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by Brat-tett & Brat Pack's 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him! Just to say and I quote "hi what are you doing for the 4th of July? I think we're going to XXXXXXXX Do you think the weather will be nice like the weather man said I sure hope so. What are you doing now? Are you going anywhere this summer/ Really? How cool! Well, I was just thinking about ya and thought I'd call. You can call me if you want, do you want my phone numer-get a piece of paper I'll wait.....ok you ready? ok its XXX-XXXX. Hope to talk with you soon, call me ok? Then hang up. Its short, you have a reason to call (about the 4th) and to let him know you're thinkin bout him and give him your number. If he calls you back great...if he doesn't well then you know he's not interested. He may even ask you to go with them on the 4th of July! So don't freak out if he does! Say ok, that'd be cool! Dio you know where I live etc. But just call, short and sweet, if he isn't home leave your number and a message about what his plans for the 4th is! Leave it at that. If he calls you, WOW girlfriend you're on a roll. Don't dress too sexy you don't want to weird out his parents and look trashy, Think more "cute" and modest ok? You'll do ok, You go girlfriend, you CAN do it. Take a deep breath, let it out slowly and then quickly dial before you have a chance to think! If you call around 10 in the morning he should still be around the house, later than that who "Knows" where he might be, Don' t ever NEVER ever call after 8pm, its rude! But go for it, he's probably more scared than you are, boy are you know, more scared I mean. So you have the upper hand. so Call Him!
2006-06-24 15:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by Fays Daze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, l5 is kinda of young. Can ya like do something like call him to ask him a homework question? That's only good for one (maybe two.. RU in the same class I am hopin'?) call tho. This might be enough incentive for him tho to call you.. (LEt's hope so/he does!) I am glad you like him. Can you do something else? You can find out where he hangs out at and like go with (maybe a couple other gf) there.. (but this might backfire SO be sure so they don't like him too.. you DO tell them you are trying to hang out to be 'noticed' by him.. do NOT go with some girlfriend who is a backstabber, K?) You can ask his friends (or the gf can) if he might like you too first (that would bolster your confidence..) It's nice to act confident but don't go overboard calling, K? You'll be fine.. later- (melancholia)
2006-06-24 14:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. Any guy who likes you is gonna call you and pursue you, even if he's scared. And if he is too afraid to pursue you, then he is not strong enough to love you. Men truly are built to be pursuers (hunters). Don't obsess over this guy- it will only drive you nuts. Enjoy your friends, both male and female, and if this guy wants to pursue you, he will make a way into your social circle. Count on it.
2006-06-24 14:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Shalom Yerushalayim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who has whose phone #? Call him! No biggie. Just don't call him everyday or anything. Nothing wrong w/ making the first move. But before you end the call, make sure thathe knows that you want him to call you next time.
2006-06-24 14:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by Lenore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno how u feel ... i feel the same way bout the guy i like n im in the same position but i think i will call him and just ask him if he wants to chill tomorrow and go from there. hope it works out for u
2006-06-24 15:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by soccer4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the guy should call the girl if he really is serious
he would call you.
2006-06-24 14:57:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its OK for you to call him. Get to be his friend first then take it further. You might scare him off. You are both very young and will like other people.
2006-06-24 14:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nothing at 15 is serious. Call him and ask him...it's either yes or no. If no, then tell yourself his loss and move on.
2006-06-24 14:56:21 · answer #9 · answered by BuffyFan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea go ahead and call him. It might not be serious but hey it could.
2006-06-24 14:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋