how do i make out?

Question

Alright, I'm 13 years old and my boyfriend wants to make out with me, and I told him I would. But sadly, I have never made out before. I don't want to get to the point where he's expecting me to makeout and I don't even know how.

I know, most of you are probably laughing at me, but if you're going to leave mean comments, please don't leave any at all because I already have bad thoughts about myself. :[

Can someone tell me how to makeout?

Answer 1

your 13! you shouldn't be making out with anyone! your bf sounds like a sleaze-bag. i mean if hes pressuring you to make-out already at such a young age who knows what he might talk you into doing next. and that is how you end up barely 16 and pregnant with your first kid. not to mention a glorious rep as the school you know what.

don't worry about such things right now and just be a kid!!

Answer 2

Baby girl

The beautiful age of 13 is not the age for making out and it is definitely not something you want to be instructed on how to do over the Internet.

Save you virtue for a male who will respect your purity because in it you are more beautiful than light. Even though you maybe convinced that he loves you and you may have a strong desire to accommodate his request, don't do it.

You are far more valuable than you give yourself credit for. You are a doll and should be reminded of that constantly. Making out is for marriage and 13 is not the appropriate age for type of commitment. Therefore live your teenage life as a teenager and don't allow him or anyone else to rob you of that by making you believe that it's okay for you to make out.

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Answer 3

You are too young! If you still have to ask questions about how to do it, you're not ready!!!! Just wait and when the time is right, you'll know what to do. If you start down this path now, you'll regret it later in life. At 13, settle for holding hands and a kiss goodnight!

Answer 4

Ok...dont just say "lets make out." Be kind of shy and coy about it. I didnt have my first kiss until I was 16, so dont be embarassed about not knowing!!!! So, when he kisses you first, just kiss him back and be gentle. If and when he starts to french kiss, imitate him. Do what he does if you like it. That's how i learned and every guy I have dated since my first kiss has said that I was a good kisser. Oh...one more thing...this will get them every time. While youre making out, gently bite his bottom lip and kinda pull it, gently though!!! Then after you let go of his lip, kiss him where you bit him. If he doesnt like that, then somethings wrong with him!!!

Answer 5

Just touch lips first. Then back off and contemplate how it felt. If you like it, mash them together a little more, if you are really liking it get tounges involved. It can e really sexy and powerful at times. Watch and be prepared for that too. Be prepared for what it might lead to. How it might make you and him feel , etc. What yu might or might not do. Etc. Just feel and respond just in ways you are feeling too. If he's 18 or older don't even try it.

Answer 6

Tell him you never maked out with anyone before. He might be glad, hearing that he'll be the first one. Ask him to teach you. It'll be a fun experience for both of you. And a good idea is to mess up on purpose a couple times, so you get to kiss him more ;)

Answer 7

ok, first. I can tell you are 13 cause of your insecurities. No one is laughing at you and if they are well **** them. They don't know you and don't care about you anyway so they're opinions don't count. Sweetie, that comes naturally. You think we are going to laugh cause you know deep inside their is no routine to making out, just do it. Just don't have sex. That's all you're too young and I am getting sick and tired of hearing about these little girls having ******* sex. You just do what you both like. You don't need to pass a test to learn to make out. Just do what you feel like and go from there. Just make sure , it only has making out. As long as it doesn't go inside your pants , you are ok. Have fun and make sure , you really want to. Good luck :)!

Answer 8

ok first start off with a small tap kiss or maybe 3 then put ur hands around his neck push in and then your ready for some tung,playa aroun in their and then let him put his toung in your mouth then softly bite his lip and put your toung all around his mouth and some more tung and then look at his face and kiss him again, then if you whant to you can go to his neck and do whatever you whant and do the first steps and well then hell probably guide you, Good luck and it's ok but i do think that you are a little too young, GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 9

You're only 13. Please take my advice, and don't let your boyfriend
pressure you into something you might regret later. You have your whole life ahead of you, so try not to ruin it. You may end up pregnant, or even worse, infected with herpes or even AIDS!
I'm not trying to be mean; I'm only trying to help you. Just think of how angry your parents would be if they found out what you're doing. Just be careful, okay?

Answer 10

there's not a "right" way or "wrong" way to make out. you will just know what to do. it's not hard to figure out. just go with the flow and do what feels right. :)

you are young, and if you aren't ready, don't do it. you still have the rest of your life to "make out" or do even more. don't let him pressure you into doing something you aren't willing and/or ready to do. "making out" is not such a big deal.

really, you just kiss, slipping tounge in his mouth. I prefer slow kissing. don't choke him with your tongue, lol, just put it in a little bit at a time.

like i said, just do what YOU are ready to do. don't do and/or go any further than you're ready to.

keep that in mind.

Answer 11

The fact that you have to ask how to "make out" tells me that you are too immature, have a lack of knowledge and isn't well rounded. Read at least two on sex and relationships and sexual transmitted diseases then talk with your parents. I guarantee that after you finished the above task you will know how and be quite ready to "make out". "Making out" can lead pregnancy, sexual transmitted diseases and even DEATH. Do not be pressured to "make out" until you know and fully understand the risks.