my mom keeps naggin me bout ****...my sister is just a plan old *****...my brother is a prick..the only one i love is my dad...what do i do...how can i change this?
2006-06-24 14:10:24 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
good question.
to bad no one will have a real answer for that. everyones family bugs the hell out of them. you might grow out of it. you might not.
2006-06-24 14:12:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW,
I read the answer,s you was given, and I'm hoping you read this.
HATE is a Powerful Word!
Your Family , will be your Family,
For the rest of your life.
I am Sorry But i cant say that ALL in Your Family is Bad ~ !
What i am hearing from you is,
You have some issues that need addressing.
And Maybe even a anger problem.
When everyone around you is wrong, and you HATE,
Maybe you should have a DEEP look into yourself,
Sounds like your the one with the problems.
Life is to short to have such Anger ~!
My thoughts are with you, ~*~*~*~*~ Peace.
2006-06-24 14:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by Brat-tett & Brat Pack's 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can't change it, if u could, u could write a book, and it would be a best seller. It seems that just like everyone else, some of ur family members have problems, and u are the one they choose to take it out on. If ur into praying, do that, and God will help u with it, and provide a way out, if not, maybe moving out is wise if ur old enough, if not, are u old enough to work? drive? Take a long drive, work extra hours, if ur not old enough to do any of those things, then read, write, draw, listen to music, keep answering questions on this site, ANYTHING not to incur the wrath of ur family.
2006-06-24 14:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray. ask forgiveness because you feel that way. we should not hate anyone even if they hurt us. their reactions and behavior are the results of a lot of factors which even themselves they did not plan or even like. only God can change a person and if you will start asking God to make you a Holy Spirit filled one, they will find you a blessing to them and the Spirit within you will transfer to the people around you. You will experience happiness and contentment in everything that you do. You will find out how enjoying living in His Words. You'll find out that life is so easy and enjoying with all His blessings and promises. Read and listen to His Words.
2006-06-24 14:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess: you're a preteen or teen?
For some reason, during those years people act as though they are not even members of their families. They hurt the people who love them very much. How did you wind up still caring for pop?
You need to concentrate on being considerate to your family members, and stop thinking such negative things about them. You don't want them to wind up hating you, do you? Looks different when the shoe's on the other foot.
2006-06-24 14:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my family. Eventually, I turned 18 and walked out the door. As far as right now, unless your family is abusing you, which includes verbal and mental just as well physical, you can't do much but steer clear. I would go to my guidance counselor.
Plus, if you ever want revenge secrets let me know. I know em all. But, trust me, the secrets are for real deviants who don't care if someone gets hurt. Hahahahaha!!!!
2006-06-24 14:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by N_Quizitive_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's always the option of therapy, theres also friends that could help U deal w/ this. I could B a friend? IM me mayB we could B friends, I could try 2 B the ear's N eye's of the friendship. There's also way's of look'n back of the good times, there hasta B some good times U had w/ them? I mean there's no way that they could B like this since U'r birth! soo hollar mayB I could help U through this!?!?
2006-06-24 14:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I'm kinda the same one but i love my sister but my brother just a butt-hole sometimes. Well I guess your gonna have to deal with it like I am cuz when its time for the parents to leave this world who else are you gonna have your brother and sister
2006-06-24 14:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by Andrea P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with your dad and try to see the good in the rest of your family
2006-06-24 14:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by Neilman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CAN'T change them, only your reaction to the them. But sounds like family counseling is in order. We can choose our friends, but not our families.
God, grant me the serenity, to accept the things I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I can, and the
Wisdom to know the difference.
COME ON WISDOM.
2006-06-24 14:14:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family once meant your mom/dad and siblings; but with so many divorces and problems I have found what works for me is to make those outside of your natural familly your "new" family. This is called "choosing your family". I hope it works for you, it worked for me.
2006-06-24 14:17:43 · answer #11 · answered by mysterywoman50401 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋