Theres this guy i like and he used to like me im not sure if he does now but he asked me to do things with him ( about 3 months ago) but i said no because i found out he had a gf. We never really were friends or anything. I havent seen him since school was out. I keep thinkin about him and even dreamed about him 2 nights in a row, i dont wanna ruin his relationship with his girl, but should i tell him how i feel just in case he feels the same or move on? PLEASE HELP!
2006-06-24 13:53:41 · 7 answers · asked by *DOPEGIRL C* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Funny thing about thoughts which turn into fantasies. They really make us believe we have feelings but they really are not our true feelings. I think your true feelings are that you know that if he is coming on to you while he has a girlfriend then he would do the same with me when someone else he fancies comes along. That you know how bad you would feel if you were a reason why he broke up with his present girlfriend and that you know that deep inside all he is after is getting in your pants. I know you are smarter then to listen to misguided feelings that spawned out of fantasies created by suggested things he asked you to try.
Be true to yourself your too smart to be fooled by a player and you know that you deserve better.
2006-06-24 14:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
definately yes!!! it might turn out as a great relationship. There's no reason why you should hide or be ashamed of your feelings in any way.
I was in a similar situation, so i wrote a letter to the guy telling him how i felt and it all worked out for the best.
2006-06-24 13:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. Getting involved with someone already in a relationship is never a good idea. If they break up, talk to him, til then, work on moving on.
2006-06-24 14:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he has a girlfriend, then he's thinking about her.....and i don't think it's a good idea to tell him about your feelings cause obviously, since he has a gf he won't feel the same about u....
I'd try to forget about him and find myself someone else
good luck
2006-06-24 13:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by xqueenyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy then do it dont wery about his gf its every woman for her self know go for it if he dose not like you bake then find a nuther guy to crush on you may find out that you really like a nuther person a lot more then this guy you like know.
I hope I could help,
L,Andria
2006-06-24 15:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by Andria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might as well. If he dosen't feel the same was, oh well life goes on.
2006-06-24 13:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Kronos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone. i was in that situation. i liked a girl and her man was jealous of me hangin' with his girl.
2006-06-24 14:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋