There is this kid at my school that always hits and hurts me. I fight him back sometimes but hes just about as tough (if not tougher) than me so its a pretty even match. On the last day of school i took his yankees hat and threw it in the dumpster and hes gnna hurt me on the first day of school...what should i do?
2006-06-24 13:53:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Start right now working out and learning what you can about self defense--focus your entire balance of summer activities around this---you have time--you not only will benefit from it pyshically but-- when school starts and the trouble begins--you can stomp this little ape into a powder and be done with it for good
2006-06-24 14:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you what you shouldn't have done. When you took his cap, you ensured that he will pound on you.
Bullies are insecure--they have a need to hurt others, to give themselves self-assurance.
The only thing you can do is get him another yankees hat and maybe he will ease up on you. You would be better off with him as a friend, not an enemy.
2006-06-24 21:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by mrearly2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, 1st of all I don't think it was such a great idea to throw his hat in the garbage, but since you already have, i would advise that you go to a teacher on the 1st day of school and tell her what happened and hopefully she will work it out.
and DONT listen to these other answers that say get built over the summer and things such as that b/c fighting him is just going to make him even angrier.
GOOD LUCK! -vp
2006-06-24 21:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by LOVER VP! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I guess that moving to a new school is out of the question, you could take a martial arts class during the summer, make friends with a bunch of gang bangers, buy him a new hat and take it over to him, or just get ready to be beat up.
2006-06-24 22:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by Chainsawmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k first thing dont fight back. From personal expierence when i fight back i just get frustrated and say mean things i dont want to say. second thing, my bro taught me the king of all kings ha dont wry about being so offensive and focus on defensive. For example.. Billy-hey ur a dick You-im not a dick so i dont need to get in his face about it. If you think about the situation bullys just try to get people mad so dont get mad play it cool and ignore the situation. Always stand up for yourself but dont hit someone or mess with there stuff. Just roll with it. Say hey dont touch me. And if he keeps messing with you just take it. Maybe hes doing it as a playful thing. i wish i had someone i could wrestle around with. If it gets violent and its not playful honestly i know ratting on kids isnt fun but tell a teacher.
2006-06-24 20:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by postalsock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it was just a prank so you could get a chance to talk to him one on one and that you want the s_ _ T between you to to stop once and for all.You and him will end up being best of friends be for the school year is out.
2006-06-24 22:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by curious_john 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...he's been bullying you, well one thing you can do is avoid him...and stay in public places at school where you'd expect teachers to be. Who knows he may have forgotten about what you did. If you do get into a fight with him...um...play dead...no I'm kidding, i have no idea, I don't fight.
2006-06-24 22:52:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and stand up to him. Go for all you got! Beat him up if he starts with you first! Do this until it takes God knows how many people to get you off of him. Let it be know that you are a man with b@lls! And that nobody is going to call you a punk! That you are a fighter! Damn whoever f&cks with you! KICH HIS A$$!
2006-06-24 21:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell someone or get involved in helping him in some way. First of all you should never try to get back at him no matter what he does that just makes you and him equal. He probably has a whole lot of sadness and fright in his mind and cannot handle it. HELP HIM!!!
2006-06-24 21:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by Golden Ivy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...sounds like ur in some deep **** huh? first thing i would do would be to...kick him where it really hurts (balls), then when hes on the ground kick him in the stomach, spit on him, and tell his fat ****** *** if he ever talks smackagain he'll get it worse!! but thats just me...good luck dude! oh yeah try to work out during the summer you got a few months yet.
2006-06-24 21:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by CT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋