I really have a HUGE infatuation for this guy I know and he found out. He said he didn't love me and probably never will. I understand that he doesn't like me, but I still feel such a strong love for him... It's kinda painful.
2006-06-24 13:50:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just can't really forget about it. I only Really felt like this for one other person and that ended in total tragedy. If it just fades out I can never feel like it's over...
2006-06-24 13:57:17 · update #1
I'm figuring out what I SHOULD do, it's just not what I WANT to do... there will be many other guys, but they'll never be another Christian.
2006-06-24 14:30:41 · update #2
I have this huge crush myself the problem with me is I am afraid to say anything for the fear of rejection at least you had the nerve to say what you really feel. Kudos for you! I am not that brave however kind of shy. Be strong! Try just being his friend and see if something more develops later on.
2006-06-24 13:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself time.......one of these days you'll look back and ask yourself why you had such a crush on him. This is a very normal situation that just about everybody goes through, you will be better prepared for real love for it. One day at a time. Good luck.
2006-06-24 20:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mandalawind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have enough self esteem to know that someday somebody is going to love you very much. If this isn't the guy, WAIT. You will develop more huge infatuations, so don't lower yourself to crawl after somebody who doesn't value you. In the meantime, find other activities to take your mind off this guy and stay away from him if you can. Your pain will subside.
2006-06-24 20:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel to want something so bad and cant have it, just remember this he is the one thats missin out not u and if it was meant to be he'll come around but until then focus on something else like ur friends or a hobbie.
2006-06-24 20:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by *DOPEGIRL C* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't be with some one that doesn't want to be with you thank him for being honest so many guys would have just lied to you try to move on and take it easy don't jump to another guy that will never work your pain will ease as time goes by get a hobby do something that you enjoy that will take your mind off him
2006-06-24 20:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by HELLO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to move on. You can't stay with someone who won't love you back. It's simple...you can either hurt now or hurt later! Just put one foot in front of the other in time you will meet someone even better than this guy.
2006-06-24 20:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by Maimee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him; he was honest enough to tell you that he didn't love you and probably never would. Respect him, and more importantly, respect yourself; move on. There are other guys and there's one out there who will love you the moment he sees you. You just have to be patient.
2006-06-24 20:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by magic621a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOooooohhhh, poor baby. I feel your pain darling. But to be honest with you, my uncle has always told me the best way to get over one man is to get under another one. Good Luck!
2006-06-24 20:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya. Well he can't love you if you guys aren't even dating.
If you chilled out you probably would make him relax and MAYBE date you if you are lucky.
Guys hate girls that come on too strong.
2006-06-24 20:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get Over It. Thats What You Should Do.
2006-06-24 20:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋