well for the last two months i have been feeling suicidal, but i havent really told anyone yet. and i am afraid that, i might or start cutting myself again. but i am also afraid to tell my mom, cause i know that i'm gonna have to take anti-depressent pills again. and at the same time, i have been drinking almost everyday, and lieing to everyone about where i am going. so can you please help me out on what to do. it would be nice if you left your address and age, if you want to help me out!
2006-06-24 13:40:48 · 12 answers · asked by shar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to find the courge in yourself and talk to your friends. If you know talking to your mom will only lead you to pills or other outcomes, go to the next best thing and talk to your friends. Start off by letting them know that this is a serious matter and you need serious advise/help, and not from your family or the men in the white coats. You're already close to the edge and either of those will push you over. If they truly are your friends(which I pray they are), then they will respect your wish and not tell anyone till they have helped you feel better and helped you out of this depression you are in. After words, when you regain yourself and are able to take on the world again, then you might want to go to your mother and tell her what happened the last two-three months. Let her know that if it happens again you would like emotional help, not a substitue or a teperary resolver. She needs to know that you want her to help you with love and care, not just a quick fix with pills cause pills will only delay they problem while she can help solve it compleatly.
I hope this helps you out and I shall pray you don't do anything dumb.
I am 22 years old. I will not give out my address, but you are always welcome to IM me if you wish to talk. I'm more than willing to talk to you and try to help out as best as I can. And don't not IM me just cause I am invisable; I like to hide a lot. :P
2006-06-24 13:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by ben_kasack 2 · 10⤊ 2⤋
Is there a reason you don't want to go on anti-depressants? I was on anti-depressants for years but I was still depressed. Finally I became suicidal. I even made an attempt. I started seeing a new psychiatrist and he diagnosised me with Bipolar Disorder. Not only am I not depressed any longer but I stopped drinking completely, I don't have to anymore. I would be happy to talk to you more if you want. My name is Suzanne and my address is KuKKanna@yahoo.com. Take care of yourself this will all work out, I promise.
2006-06-24 13:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by kukkanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello shar. Life if much much beautiful beyond ur vision, u just need to change ur way of seeing it. This is only a phase of time, which comes to everyone's life. I am sorry, I can not feel the way u are feeling now, but belive me I would like to understand u, listen to u and share. Hope we could find a way out. Oh... to introduce myself, I am male 30 yrs. of age living in Birmingham, UK and my e-mail is issidhu@btinternet.com
I am not saying that I will take u out from this trauma or ...... but we can atleast try. Wish u all the luck of my life.
2006-06-24 13:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by Nick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something positive to do with your time which will make you feel better about yourself.
Tell your Mum as Mums know their children & can tell somethings wrong but tell her how much you dont want to take pills - there's always alternatives to anti-depressants.
Stop drinking NOW...you'll only end up with a drink problem too & alcohol makes depressed people feel worse.
I cant give you my personal details, but I do understand what you're going through...If you want to chat you can email me via Answers.
Good luck & take care
Lisa xx
Ps PLEASE DONT hurt yourself!
2006-06-24 13:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!! Why do u feel like that? Belive me, theres nothing in this world that u can tell me that s worth your attitude. We all have problems, i dont know yours, but belive me, we all think ours are the worst, and thats such a lie! We can make the difference, with a change of attitute, its all about that! Life is beutiful, with the ups and downs, with the happy moments and the sad ones (those that makes us wiser, and stronger). And the most important thing, remember that GOD loves you, open your heart, and let HIM fill all yourself with His Grace and Peace, theres nothing compared to that! GOD is love, He is the only one that never fails and besides, theres nothing impossible for Him, He can change any situation, any person, anything. Trust in Him, talk to Him, and belive me, your life is going to change for good, very very good.
Be strong, be wise, and keep on!
Blessing for you!
2006-06-24 13:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by Shannella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you feeling depressed? And if you are then you need to talk to someone before you do something stupid. And how old are you? There is NOTHING that can push someone that far. Believe me I know. I've been there and tried that. Aint worth it. If you ever need anyone to talk to email me and I'll get back to you as soon as possible. I'm 51 and my email psb22855@yahoo.com
2006-06-25 02:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do that...cuz it would make me sad...what you should do is get your girlfriends and go to the mall...or to the spa...just take it easy there is obviously something that is causing you to feel depressed again...but drugs or hurting yourself wont help...find someone you trust and just talk it out...or just someone who will listen...dont hurt yourself...you have alot left to live for and you could go accomplish anything and dont let anyone tell you otherwise...i know times get rough but you gotta fight thru that...i think you have the self will to do that...dont let yourself get hurt and dont hurt yourself...
stfu_youlose@yahoo.com if you need a helping hand or an open ear
2006-06-24 13:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by .... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't reccomend this but what I done when i felt like that was i packed up and moved across the country. my life is way better now than it ever was. You just really need a hobby or a boyfriend that treats you good. my address is jasemarsh25@hotmail.com if you wanna chat
2006-06-24 13:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by jasemarsh25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First stop drinking cause alcohol is a depressant. Second never kill yourself cause it isn't worth it. Third you need professional and spiritual help imediately! You may not want to but you should tell your mom.
2006-06-24 13:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by on my way 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you depressed and suicidal?
best advice is just be around people that make you feel good about yourself. people that make life worth living. cause life is for living
2006-06-24 13:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by dtstuff9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋