I fell in love with a gay guy. He doesn't seems gay, he doesn't acts gay, but his sister told me so I wouldn't end up getting my heart broken. I want him to tell me, but he flirts with me and I sometimes think he isn't. How can I make him confess to me that he's gay?
2006-06-24 13:17:01 · 10 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I would normally say do not believe what another person says about his sexuality, but it is hard to believe that his sister would lie about something like that.
However, if you want to perhaps try to find out, when he flirts with you, casually aks him, "Gee [name], you keep flirting with me, do you want to go out with me or something?" and see how he responds. This way you can gauge his feelings about you, without necessarily revealing how much you truly like him.
It is possible that he is bi-sexual, or just really comfortable that he can act the way he does around you without the fear of it being considered a relationship
Hopefully it works . . .
2006-06-24 13:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully the only way to deal with that is to straight out ask him about it. I have been there and done that, and it sucks because your hopes and crushed, but maybe his sister was wrong. Who knows, I would ask him and go from there.
2006-06-24 20:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, if anything, he is probably bi. anyway, siblings always tell shi t about their brothers and sisters to their significant others. trust me. i know from experience. anyway, ask him out. if he says yes, the worst that will happen is that he is bi, the best, that he is straight. if he says no, either he is not interested or he is gay. either way it is a win win. so just ask him!
2006-06-24 20:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by double0agent2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was u i ask i wouldn't believe his sister what about his sister doesn't like u. u should go and aks his friends or just aks him. i was in this kind of problem before and i went to his face and ask him.
2006-06-24 20:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by Giovy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first off it may be the sis trying to stop yall from being to getting.... just a thought...well i would say something like this... do u like it when girls do this or do that to u... just see his how he hadles it... if not play truth or dare ask him if he ever kissed a guy .... watch his expressions
2006-06-24 20:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Mickey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THe only way you are going to find out is to ask him.
2006-06-24 20:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him a picture of a naked man and see how he reacts.
2006-06-24 20:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring up gays... tell him that you arnt sure about your sexuality... make it seem ok with you...thats what i would do.
2006-06-24 20:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by pinksgirlfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him or bring this rlly attractive guy that u no hes gay and see wat happens when hes around ur lover!
2006-06-24 20:22:42 · answer #9 · answered by Draculiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him.
2006-06-24 20:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋