im talkin bout when u first meet a woman. u dont wanna lead them on and think u could be the next mr. right............what do u say??? u dont wanna reject them and u dont wanna be a perv at the same time. how do u find out what theyre up for?
2006-06-24 12:55:44 · 27 answers · asked by veedizzle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well just be honest with them. i guess you can say at first, i don't mean to sound like a perv. but right now in the way i live, or my job or just myself in general. i just would rather date you or maybe even share a bed with you but i don't want anything more serious then that.
i mean girls do the same too, they just want to date and fool around too without getting serious.
its just your age I'm sure that you want to be indepent but want to have someone their cause your lonely or want to have fun with a girl.
i mean not every girl will be into that but you can't get mad at them, cause they don't want the same thing as you do. just keep trying to fine that girl who doesn't' want a commitment either.
but don't tell them that you don't want a relationship in bed with a girl, wrong place to do it at. do it at a bar or sitting on her couch or your car while talking to her. don't do it in the bedroom, you'll be screwed then. cause girls are emotional in the bedroom, no matter if we want a boyfriend or not. so just be honest with her and it should be okay.
2006-06-24 13:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 1⤋
Welll F U wanna have a relationship 2 do w/ only sex then that S sorta like B'n N a pimp N hoe thing, F U wanna know some signs 2 show about these kinda things U might want 2 talk it up w/ another pimp or hoe that could hit U up on some signs that they had 2 know about this situation.... 2 B honest most people do look N2 a realtionship that will B N a long terms N mayB even marrage.
2006-06-24 13:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to ask that without seeming like a perv, trust me.. it just doesn't happen. The best you could do is tell her "I find you attractive, but I'm really not looking for a seriousl relationship right now. Maybe we can be a little more than friends though and have some fun? (insert seductive face here as you place arm around her waist.)"
2006-06-24 13:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by t0xic_fairy_tale 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you find some women on the same track as you except your title as King Perv when they call you that but it beats the heck out of not saying it and called alot worse and having a lot worse done to you.
2006-06-24 13:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you just date a woman and be a friend and see what happens? Why do you have to start out talking about your sexual needs and not wanting a relationship? How do you know how you might feel if you met the 'right' woman?
If you think it's only about sex - you should just hire a hooker for a few hours and leave regular women alone.
2006-06-24 13:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by purplewings123 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest and let her know you are not ready for a serious relationship just a close friend to kick it with~no strings attached until you are ready to settle down.Let her know how fond of her you are but strongly acknowledge no relationship and that you do have several friends.Take it from a real woman we can handle honesty it's the dishonesty that make females freak out. If she is a real woman she should b grateful for your honesty.
2006-06-24 12:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by misstree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her when you guys start heading down that road. I am actually attractive to this guy at my work and all I want to do is have wild sex with him!! I just wish one of us could get the courage to ask the other. There is nothing wrong with only wanting sex. Just flat out be honest though. She doesn't like it move on and try to find another potential bed buddy! GOOD LUCK !
2006-06-24 13:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by Turtlechica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GROW UP,! If You Really And Truly Only Want Sex Then Go To A Whore House And Stop Playin' All These Sweet Innocent Girls B/c Lets Face It................Ur A Pervert
2006-06-24 13:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by Emily C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to get older and grow up. A woman is just like anyone else. Be their friend first. If sex happens, make sure she wants it. Don't push it. If you disagree, you are a perv.
2006-06-24 13:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by wldaz1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Steph you know this 2006 some women like friends with benefits I know I do. No hurt feelings, No miss understanding, its straight up and to the point.
2006-06-24 13:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by dangerously in love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋