My boyfriend he is great person and i care for him so much we have been together for 9 years now but this paste spring his uncle came over for vacation and one night we found each other so we started hanging out until well you guys know ever since then we have stop seeing each other or stop calling. I do not know what to do because i care for both. Can I get some advice
2006-06-24 12:53:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think if you want to pursue this relationship, you owe your patrner the courtesy, dignity and respect to break up with him
It could go one of four ways:
You and the uncle have your fling and you find out that's all he wanted
You and the uncle have your fling and true love evolves - don't expect the family to be overyjoyed
You break up with your guy, do the uncle and then everything falls apart and you have lost everyone
You chalk the whole thing up to being too difficult and too many people's feelings involved and you move on with your life on your own
2006-06-24 12:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ICK! No way I would never sleep with the uncle! Pick one or the other but remember that the uncle knows what happened so he may spill the beans one day to your bf. Especially if you ever go to get married he will show up and may tell on you.
2006-06-24 12:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is a great person. You shouldn't let him know that you have affair with his uncle. If it is just a one time thing between you and his uncle, then you can just keep it as one time only. It's not harm if you don't tell your bf. If you really want to have more relationship with his uncle, then you must be carefully.
I understand you. Because I have a similar situation. I love my bf, but I also have feeling with my ex-bf. So, sometimes, I can't resist to be with my ex-bf. But of course, I don't tell my bf about it and I know he will be unhappy if he finds out. It's just a underground secret between my ex-bf and I. We still sleep together from time to time.
Joyce
2006-06-24 13:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by joyce_lovely_gir1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will girl i'm not sure i know how it fells to cheat on someone and you love them i doun it onece and i'm not doing it again
2006-06-24 13:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
until what? hell no!!! 9 years u moron. EWWWWW. U make me sick. Grow up. And get a clue. I hope this is a joke.
2006-06-24 13:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats messed up, girl!
2006-06-24 12:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋