My Mother & Sister?

Question

Thy say thy have there opinion and thy do but I see it as being push and rude. Every thing thy say thy are saying thy say out of love but how can you heart the one your supposed to love. Thy mack differences in all the kids and most of them don't come around. the little ones says thy don't like grand ma and tee tee thy are only 3 and 4. I don't wont to disrespect my mother but she has heart me and my kids for the lass time. I wont to cut all tayes after telling her way but I might go to far. I have years of bilt up pint and resentment for them both. What I say I will mean and wont regrat anything but should I say it ? We put up with them because thy are family but when do you say enuf anufe ? I wold have giveing them the world but thay mack me fill like I am an out side child in the street behind my back and around my kids no less, for years thy have don this. I love them but if I nevery see thim agane I wont miss it or them.

Answer 1

If they are truly causing you pain, then you have a right to tell them like it is. You don't have to speak to them disrespectfully or rudely. You can get your point across maturely without hurting anyone's feelings...after all, your feelings have been hurt long enough, & as long as you keep it inside without expressing it it's just going to make it worse, & could cause you to lose the people you love in the long run. You can be firm & tell them that their behavior & their words hurt you, & that if it doesn't stop & they don't give you the respect you deserve you will consider cutting off communication with them. I'm sure if they are confronted with the possibility of losing you & your children in their lives they will take a step back & contemplate their behavior.

Answer 2

make the break and get away from them ,you can always call them if you miss them, and you will be able to control the abuse
don`t take you kids over there any more they can talk on the phone if thing get bad hang up...