how many people agree with me?

Question

that when u get so hurt from a lover leaveing u, that u jsut have so much pain in u that u jsut wnat to set it free, like cuttin urself, i try to explain it to my friends but they jsut dont understand, they dont get it that mental pain has to be canceled out by physical pain, they jsut think it's crazy

i'm only 16 but it seems like every guy that seems right , i mean a guy that i really love, they always break up with me when i love them the most, but when i cut my self (i only did it once) i jsut stoped thinking bout wat i lost and worried bout wat i did to myself, and i jsut stoped crying, but now i found another guy that i really love, idk if i can take him leaveing me, if he ever does,

Answer 1

I agree with you, I also know how you feel. I used to be a cutter because of my depression but i have found better ways of dealing with the pain and sorrow. Write poetry or listen to music, try to go hang out with your friends and have a good time with them. Just keep moving on and remember that its his loss and your a strong woman/girl/lady ( i don't know how only you are so yeah.) I hope this helped.

Answer 2

It really, really hurts. A lot of people have gone through the pain that you are going through.
Recently a girlfriend of my neighbor's took a lot of pills, lots of vodka, and to make sure that she will die, she cut her veins as well. All of that for a guy. O, did I forget to say that she also left her 2 children without a note? They found her, and put her into mental institution. Now she has a record of a crazy person. She is very upset that she did all that, especially, because she can not care less about the guy, after only a month.
I was left ones, probably because I left the guy before that one, and hurt him enormously. That is life. It will pass. The only way to grow is in pain. See, now you know how it hurts, and you will be more gentle when you leave your next lover.
When it comes to cutting, I have scars, believe me, it is everything but attractive. I would give anything to be able to wear short sleeve shirt in the hot Chicago Summers, but I cant. (I did not cut myself, it is from 11 surgeries) And, what if you cut some tendon that is moving your finger, or something important as that? Don't be stupid. Get some activities. And get on a date as soon as you can, but no mentioning of the old boyfriend. Promise?

Answer 3

NO, u need soo soo much help, like the first person said. Your in love w love I think. I mean look at ur s/n! Ur not gonna find lastingg love at _- age, not normally anyways. I was young too, but now I am over 18, 20 years old. I'm different. I'm a lot different, and quite lucky or unlucky too. Cutting urself is the lamest thing EVER, u need professional help. Cuz to cut over a guy, a BOY who's barely 16 is really lame. Ur as immature as them. No, it doesn't, this a joke? It IS crazy. There are other ways to deal, deal w it like a normal person. Act normal. U cry, eat ice cream, listen to music, watch sad movies, write down thoughts etc. Give it TIME. Ur in recent mode only. Please, get normal, get it together.

Answer 4

The problem is that you are the one with the problem - not your friends. You are not in a good place mentally. It's not okay to cut yourself and physical pain DOES NOT cancel mental anguish. You may think it does, but it actually makes things worse - it's a mental health concern and you need to find some help.

Answer 5

Hun I understand why you do what you do but you need to go seek help. The pain is sever although it doesn't need to be canceled with a physical pain it is just as easy canceled with a other things examples: he leaves you do what the rest of us girls do and get someone that will make him jealous that he left you then you have taken your pain away and given it to him

Answer 6

There is no question that what you are doing to yourself to let go of pain is making you feel better, but it's not healthy. There should be plenty of other ways to release this pain without hurting yourself physically. There are groups across the country that will help you deal with your feelings, and help you find other outlets for your pain.
PLZ don't hurt yourself because someone hurt you!
NOBODY IS WORTH YOUR LIFE!!!

Answer 7

it is, ur doing it for rong reasons, theres never a good rsn to harm urself daily to get rid of emotional pain. grow out of the phase, i was like that and one day i woke up and saw being a cutting emo was stupid and it solves nothing, u might think it does, but it doesnt, its a waste of time, and if u lived next to me, i would talk to u everyday and tell u how its rong, its not crazy! ill agree with that, BUT it is something CONFUSED teens/ adults do. if u cant handle life, than go see a theripist or something, trust me from experience, cutting is not the right way. try music, or art, reading, something.

Answer 8

I strongly disagree with you. Those are demons leading you to believe what you are thinking. That is so untrue. You can relieve your pain by facing it. That invloves feeling it in your heart not your wrist or whatever you decide to slice up. You will feel sad but that's a normal emotion, you will feel angry also but when you feel like you NEED to hurt yourself to feel better that is the devil. I know I've been there and you really do need help. Please tell someone like an adult or a friend who you think can be of some help to you. You really hate yourself and you shouldn't sometimes we need to learn how to love ourselves and to accept the parts of us that are not perfect. God Bless You

Answer 9

no harming yourself will never stop the pain it will only help for a short time and make you want to cause more and more until your body cant take any more and your life is over. release your pain by expressing your emotions. some of the best poets in the world suffered from emotional pain and depression.

Answer 10

Don't cut yourself! Mental Pain + Physical Pain = LOTS OF PAIN