2006-06-24 12:40:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My husband proposed after we were together for 3 months and we got married a month after that. We have been together for almost 5 now and happy as ever.
If you love him and he loves you (do you guys say you love each other) than I say go for it.
Love is love and if you know it and you are happy you will make it work, love has no time limit, when it is true and pure the possibilities are endless.
Good luck!
2006-06-24 12:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by TwinMommy07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say.. he's a bit obsessive.
Anyway, the best thing to do is to tell him flat out that you're not ready for that kind of commitment and personally, I don't think that he is either. No matter what people think, you can't get to know someone within three months. I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and 9 months and there's still things we don't know about eachother, nor are we anywhere near ready for marriage. That level of commitment isn't something that you want to deal with until you know for sure it's the right time with the right person. I'd suggest dating for at least 2-3 years before the thought of proposing comes to mind.
2006-06-24 19:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by t0xic_fairy_tale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't believe him, because three months is way too quick to be talking about it. If he still insists then he is a little on the immature side. I agree with the previous answer, he may want to get in your pants. My rule of thumb is to date for a year before even thinking of marriage. Good Luck.
2006-06-24 19:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready, then say so. If he truely loves you he will ask again later, and keep on asking until you are ready. But do not let him pester you with the porposal..he seems to eager for some reason!
3 months is debatable. Can you see you two growing old together? Having kids? Who has the money in the household?
OH! No matter what, and I know alot will disagree with this, but keep separate accounts! And one joint account. It maybe confusing and alot of paperwork but this way you are protecting your assets if something happens in the future!
2006-06-24 19:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by menndebi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could very well just be telling you that he wants to propose to you just to get into your pants, or to keep you dangling, invested in the relationship. if he actually does propose,my advice to you would be to WAIT. it's highly unlikely that you know with certainty you whether you want to spend the rest of your life with someone you've only been dating for three months.
2006-06-24 19:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can propose - and then have a 3 year engagement.
2006-06-24 19:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by bluskygreengrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you're flattered by the idea but you don't think that you're ready for that kind of commitment right now. If he really likes you enough to propose then I'm sure he will understand and wait for you.
2006-06-24 19:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run! It seems weird to me that he told you he wants to propose instead of just going ahead and proposing.
2006-06-24 19:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by Miro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a good idea. too much of a commitment after three mere months... obviously this freaks you out or you wouldn't be here asking the question. don't feel pressured to be "nice" - us girls always make the worst decisions when based on what others will think of us or when we try to please other people and forget we have backbones. it sounds harsh, i guess, but tell him he's not thinking clearly. take care of yourself first --- ALWAYS.
2006-06-24 19:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by tami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT. see if he is actually going to propose to you, or is he just saying that to get in your pants?
2006-06-24 19:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by JACK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋