I met her online, and she told me if her dad found out he would not approve of it because he is very traditional. Neiter of us want to lie. I'm just hoping he will avoid the subject for now but I'm sure he will ask.
2006-06-24 12:30:30 · 26 answers · asked by Koolam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be honest, respectful and yourself
but keep in mind most dads will never except the person there daughters picked to be there boyfriends...so dont be to crushed, thats life!
2006-06-24 12:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by emc251978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy--look att he question--the dad will ask--so how did you meet?---- and you answer honestly--however--you did not meet her online did you? you talked to her online--so describe how you met--when did you two actually see each other--how did you get there--what was the day like--how did you know each other--(oh i heard some people chatting about her-she sounded very nice--sweet cool--whatever-and i said i wanted to meet her--so it was arranged----the people chatting of course are you two-but you are not lying--you are telling the truth--)
so answer the question--
or 2nd option--before you meet dad--say to your girl--hey you know we met on line--its not very traditional--why don't we play act --and meet at the park or something and pretend its the first time---
if you do this--and you use it for something to be cocrete in a physical sense of how you first met--it is also a truth-- both will work-- an both are absolute truths
this is true
remember the word is meeting--not talking-
cheers
2006-06-24 19:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by vayacondios 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dad's can be tricky to deal with.. however, don't lie to him because it will most likely in the end make things much worse. You don't want to start off your relationship (with the man that helps make the decisions as to wether or not she can see you) with a lie. My advice, is to meet him and be completely polite. If he see's how nice you are then maybe he'll learn to respect you and the fact that his daughter picked someone good.
2006-06-24 19:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by t0xic_fairy_tale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are no traditions that prohibit the way people meet
only the way they behave after meeting
iff any girls father wishes to meet with you it can only mean that she has spoken to him of you in a strong way
iff you have strong feelings for this girl ????? then you have nothing to lose by accepting an invitation
iff you are scared of accepting an invite --- then i have a doubt about your true feelings
this sounds like a very genuine and careing father to me
go and meet and respect him iff you really love his daughter ---- iff not --- dont play games
true people ----- love truly
do you truly love ?????
best wish for honest decision
yours in hope
M. M.
2006-06-24 19:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by medicine man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to meet her dad. If you and her go out with out him knowing, there will be more problems for her. You should make the first move, this will make him think of you higher than others.
2006-06-24 19:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by wldaz1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run like hell if he has a shotgun in his hands. But seriously, meet him. Be respectful. Look him square in the eye and shake his hand firmly. Answer his questions honestly. In other words, be a man.
2006-06-24 20:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by BigRyk88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should meet her dad if he wants to meet u and its not up to him if u guys will stay together or not its not up to the father. when it comes time for love u shouldn't care who likes the girl that your with as long as u love her. go for it don't be scared and tell him the truth don't lie. good luck
2006-06-24 19:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by faith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet him, cal him sir, give him all the respect he deserves and look at it from his point of veiw, how are you gonna feel about the guy trying to take your baby away from you someday?You will be respected by him in the end if your respectful.
2006-06-24 19:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by error file not found 404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet him, probably. He will learn to deal with it. Just approach him as you would any girlfriend's dads, whether his views are very traditional or not...you should meet with him if your dearest girl wants it.
2006-06-24 19:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should meet him, whats the problem with telling him how you met, if it is not a problem or is wrong then you have nothing to worry about.but i know you know it is wrong.thats why you are not excited about meeting him. do the right thing and be honest. use your manners and be polite. dont act older act your age.goodl uck.
2006-06-24 19:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋