I hate to ask this but have no where else to turn: I met and completely fell for this wonderful man. We have spent everyday together since we met over a month ago. Effortlessly falling. I am terrified of getting burned, so once night out of stupidity and panic and I told him I couldn't see him any more. But I told him that because he threw the "rebounder" word out there. I can't stand being his rebounder, so I walked away crushed. Now I am miserably missing him but am too proud and afraid to make a move. I was hoping he would have contacted me so mend things up, but hasn't. Advice?
2006-06-24 11:46:57 · 7 answers · asked by burn20out 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Proud is never a good thing in love matters. Re-bouncer or not does not matter and should not affect the relationship when the feelings are real. If you still to proud to go forward and recover your relationship try to get as busy as possible, when time is available you think in stuff like feeling.
2006-06-24 11:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by GAV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I had a similar experience in a way...my gf & I had separated because she thought this "sensible/logical" due to the distance between our homes...
Thing was, be both knew we were perfect for each other, but this scared her because she had just divorced her ex, and wanted to explore life, not just get tied down straight away...
We had a miserable few months without communication, then one day she phone me on her mobile by accident. She had dialed Andy instead of Anna, one of her friends.
As soon as we spoke she knew we had to make it work somehow, and, after a long talk, then another, she arranged to come and stay with me for a month to prove her good intent.
That was 3 years ago, and although we are still living apart, neither of us have any regrets to try again. We love each other very much. So...try and speak to him. Tell him you were afraid. Tell him how you feel about him. Be honest, even though it frightens you. It cannot make you any more miserable. See what happens. Good luck!
2006-06-24 13:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by Quietman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call him right up and tell him what your feelings are and maybe he'll understand. If he truly loves you he'll understand
but if he doesn't and yells at you, He's not worth it a
and besides there are more fish in the sea.
Also, for healing wounds you should ask him to meet
at a movie, or dinner. Something like that may make him
feel more comfortable around you. Don't worry that he'll
say no. If he says no just say: "Sorry for wasting your time."
And hang up- Do not cry. Take this advice and you'll be a couple again.
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2016-05-17 06:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it. if he really was into you he would have called by now but then some men take time to think about things before they get back to you. i say leave it for a while and see what happens
2006-06-24 11:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well if u want him then keep after him , sometimes there are just guys u gotta have , i say chase him down
2006-06-24 11:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firsrt is he good to you ? do he treat you right? email me when you answer those question ok
2006-06-24 11:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋