if you want the guy to take you seriously and it turns into a relationship???
2006-06-24 11:38:16 · 13 answers · asked by Lulu Ferrari 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would wait for approx three months if the guy is serious about you he would wait
2006-06-24 11:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Again we're discussing sex as if it some some sort of commodity to be 'taken' or 'given'. Sex is a two way experience and the answer to the question is that when you feel ready you are ready.
Also, all this talk of 'he'll wait if he likes you'. Who's to say that it is him who has to wait? Again the assumption is that men are sex crazed aninals which is a gross over simplification of male sexuality.
The basic rule of thumb is if two people are attracted to each other and respect each other then they will have sex- whether that is after a single meeting or after 3 months.
If a woman plays games or uses (abuses) her sexuality then she needs to be ejected immediately. All this......'he should wait at least 3 dates' is artificial and if suspect a woman is employing 'rules' like this then she's out of the door pronto.
A real woman acts on her feelings.
2006-06-24 16:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by Viking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How you feel about your guy, how the guy feel bout you, not by wot he says but by wot he does and how you feel within yourself is really the answer.
if the guy is genuine, he wont mind waiting for you to `give yourself`, if he keep on asking `when we gona sleep 2getha` type questions, Doh then there`s neva an ideal time.
the guy should take you seriously without you having to sleep with him, that`s a big commitment to make and you should feel safe within yourself that the guy is genuine
2006-06-24 11:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by mysps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worrying about whether you are ready to sleep with him yet then chances are you aren't ready! There isn't an ideal time - just do it when you feel like it and you know for certain you won't regret it the next morning!
2006-06-24 11:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by xxlalaxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you feel comfortable with the idea. This can take a very short or a very long time, but it's the only criterion (unless there is also a religious one).
2006-06-24 12:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by todaywiserthanyesterday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you want.... well not on the first 3 dates. Relationships just happen doesn't really matter when u sleep with him, and if he just wants to sleep with you.... he's not gonna go as far as 3 dates: to expensive (hookers are cheaper then paying for 3 dates).
2006-06-24 11:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by Violet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with 'acorn', things like this shouldn't be planned. It'll just happen, you'll know when it's right.
I think you should atleast wait a couple of weeks/months though as they may respect you more and they must like you if they are willing to wait that long ;-)
2006-06-24 11:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , do you really want the truth ?
People that I've known for a long time have answered that question.
More than 10 minutes.
If you really like, yep, like, that person, you'll find yourself nakedly involved, ver-r-r-r-ry quickly.
2006-06-24 14:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by Richard B-H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No "IDEAL TIME" you should let it come along in it's own time, it will be much more exciting and enjoyable, instead of deciding when it should be, like feeding the cat, ok your getting your food at 9am and thats it.
no no let it happen dont organise it.
2006-06-24 11:42:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A month is long enough
2006-06-26 02:34:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋