Ok...so I have been dating this guy for about a month, and we are really into each other. He met my family two days after he met me. I know that he is not dating anyone else, and I feel something between us, that I thought was never possible. I know its only been a month that I have known him, but I don't know when you are considered "boyfriend/girlfriend." Does the male or female bring it up, and how do you do it?
2006-06-24 11:30:46 · 16 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, honey, if you don't know whether you're a couple or not, then who the heck can tell you? You'll need to figure this out on your own (along with your "boyfriend")!!
2006-06-24 11:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by unsersmyboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have any of u said the L word to the other?
Even if not, going out together constantly and him treating u right AND also u say he met ur parents, and not seeing anybody else means ure a couple..time has no meaning as u can fall into each other in a week, a month, a year doesn't matter.
Hope he's serious as he seems to be! Good luck.
2006-06-24 18:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by Frankie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not usually a discussed event.
It sounds like you like him quite a bit but haven't received the same signals from him. I don't think it's a good idea to ask if you're a couple yet. If you like him, keep dating and with time, you won't have to ask. You will know.
2006-06-24 18:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by MillwoodsGal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usally the female brings it up because were more sensitive then men and we feel secure when we know that your what you may call gf/bf. And how you do it all i ever do is just say i love you when u feel right and he'll probaly say it back if u've been together for a month and when he does you'll know your bf/gf! :)
2006-06-24 18:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kayla Jakob Your Girl! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asks you to date him exclusively and you agree, then you are a couple. If either of you dates other people, you are not.
2006-06-24 18:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by purplewings123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he's not seeing anyone else, and you're not seeing anyone else, then I'd say you're a couple already, especially if he's met your parents.
2006-06-24 18:35:09 · answer #6 · answered by SlothMachine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, when he starts to introduce you as "my girlfriend" is a pretty clear indication. Unless you want to ask him, and I dont think guys really care to discuss the inner workings of your relationship status.
2006-06-24 18:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by trystero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could tell because u will have this feeling about them and u both will have trust in each other and if he treat u right then u know yall are made for each other
2006-06-24 18:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by lilnikki_2010spongebob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to know also...it get's pretty complicated if you never talk about it..but I dont think you say "will you be my girlfriend"
2006-06-24 18:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by Marc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him ask u , but from what u wrote it sounds like u 2 are a couple.
2006-06-24 18:35:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋