Two people have emotional and physical intimacy. One is committed to the other, but the other is afraid of commitment or being tied down and always thinks it's going to be better somewhere else. This person is also fairly emotionally unstable, and their life can't handle love at this point due to excessive stress, etc.
How can both see eye to eye and agree to work things out or wait until the time is right? I really care about her a lot
2006-06-24 11:01:59 · 11 answers · asked by Marc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is comfort. Love is profound and vast. Love is feeling safe with another, a friendship set on fire, or rather, to the extreme, when two people care about one another more than the world, and all other worries can be put aside when the two are together. Love exists between the two no matter where they are. It is unconditional. It waits for everyone but can only be found if not looked for and does not wait forever- you may think you have found your true love, but in a few years, he or she could be married to someone else, another love. It cannot be created in an instant. But it can be found everywhere. Love isn't holding hands, soft music, pretty dresses, or the scent of a cologne or perfume. That's romance. Love is just there without any material objects to get in the way. Love is not proven by a mere ring or necklace. It is proven through acts of love. Showing you care about someone is one of the most important things you will do in your lifetime. So don't force anything on her or don't let her force anything on you. Let each day come individually. Things will work out.
2006-06-24 11:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omg you sound like me. This has been my situation for the last few months. Sometimes I feel like I'm going in circles. Maybe we should hook yours and mine together and see what happens. I care for my unstable emotional nut case way to much as well.
Good luck with yours!!
2006-06-24 11:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by lighthead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 10:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her face to face and tell her how you feel and let her know that you will wait if you need to, but you dont want to let her go. i think if she cares for you as well she will be glad that you took the time to sit down and talk to her about it. good luck!
2006-06-24 11:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married twice and can not answer this.I guess it is wanting each other no matter what the price.Good luck with your girl!!
2006-06-24 11:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by rdnckgrl0215 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE is one of the great mysteries in life.....
how does one know they are in love?
what does it feel like to be in love?
plus many others.......
the only thing I can say is only you can tell if you are in love nobody else can.....
2006-06-24 11:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by JAMES E. F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no real answer to this question but what I have learned of what love is to me is...
(L)isten: and Validate them by hearing and empathizing.
(O)verlook: their minor character flaws as they will overlook yours.
(V)alue: who they are and what they mean to you.
(E)xpress: how you love them not just with words but with actions.
2006-06-29 23:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to know the same thing!!!
2006-06-24 11:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a feeling when a boy and a girl want to kiss and be together for the rest of thair lives!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-24 11:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by Claudia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"lady don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more. what is love?"
2006-06-24 11:06:24 · answer #10 · answered by jade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋