we have been together for 3yrs and i tell him that i dont like when he gets mad at me and wont see me or pick up the phone when i call for 3 to 4 days and he still does it what do i do.i feel like he just care adout his feeling not how i feel what do i do....
2006-06-24 10:10:44 · 15 answers · asked by mami 04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him to grow up and stop being an ***
2006-06-24 10:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by kf4wwe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is behaving in this immature of a amanner, end the relationship now, before it gets any more serious. Men who behave like this only get worse after marriage. If you marry him and you fight like this, his moodiness willl only get worse. This silent treatment will turn into him leaving for long periods of time, hours.... then maybe days. And who knows where he will go when he is gone? And who will he be with when he is gone? Who will he seek out to talk to when he is gone off brooding?
I hate this kind of childish behavior from people. Stay, talk it out like an ADULT and settle the problem . Or walk away for a little while, then come back and talk it out, but that silent treatment is for the birds because it makes the person on the receiving end of it feel like dirt and shatters their self esteem. Its demoralizing, demeaning and childish. Get out now or get him some counseling.
2006-06-24 10:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by heatherlovespansies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well tell him he needs to grow up and for the 3-4 days he isnt talking to u find a really nice guy friend to spend time with. dont cheat on ur man but dont obsess about him not talking to u.
2006-06-24 10:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by ~~SUGAR*LIPS~~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick his *** to the curb, some guys pick fights just for the simple fact that since there mad at you, they wont have any guilt of cheating.
2006-06-24 10:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by They Love ME......... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my man had the same exact problem when he got angry he wouldnt pick phone email such nonsense in anger but i decided that it was time to make him feel how i felt once after such a time when on phone he got angry i cried hung up on him i didnt talk to him for 8 weeks lol he called emailed asked my family friends about me finally i told him this is how i feel when u act this way with me he understood he never does it with me now try it
2006-06-24 10:17:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! There's plenty of good quality guys out there, believe me! Why would anyone waste their VALUABLE time on this earth over such trivia?! No one person is worth this kind of aggravation... what a waste of time - over and over again! Come on... snap out of it... what are you waiting for? Are you gonna wait for him to propose marriage to you, and then marry him? Then what? Now you're stuck with this "A' hole for life, (or until divorce)?!
2006-06-24 10:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by love_2b_curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either not make him mad anymore or find someone else who doesn't get mad at you and who likes you the way you are
2006-06-24 10:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is this guy? Sounds like an immaturity problem. This is how a child reacts when angry or doesn't get his way.
2006-06-24 10:15:36 · answer #8 · answered by goddessastraea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometiimes he just needs to be alone to cool off, especially if it is your falut that you are getting him mad. Wondering what to do? Stop making him mad.
2006-06-24 10:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by ohnoslen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you've got yourself a real 'Mummy's boy' there hun. Whats he gonna be like after you marry!! He'll be a real pain in the butt and a danger to your kids. get shot of him now. there's plenty of guys out there who'll treasure you and love you forever.
2006-06-24 10:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by robert120513 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you get mad do it to him see how he likes it. or if he's ignoring you just ignore him back wait for him to call you! that's immature and I wouldn't put up with that crap
2006-06-24 10:15:32 · answer #11 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋