depends what stage of the relationship you are in with her. if you've already had sex together, and just want to know how to get her in the mood to do it again, foreplay works great. if she's totally not in the mood, stimulating her genitals directly is not a good idea. you need to stimulate her mind first. try watching a movie with a romantic love scene. also telling her what you like about her works wonders. not like, "remember that bra you were wearing last time we got it on? that thing was HOT!" but something like, "you are so cute when you sleep" or "i love that you are so passionate about your job." it will get her feeling positively towards you, and then you can move in for some kissing or something. lots of kissing will work wonders, and pretty much everyone loves a massage so you two can take turns on each other. but you shouldn't make the next move. get her to the point where she is just dying to jump you, then let her. :)
a side note on this.... it may turn out that she is in the mood for kissing but not sex because of *ahem* her hormonal cycle. some girls have a really low sex drive while they are on their period, for example, and also might be uncomfortable with the idea of sex during that time. don't stick your hand in her pants all of a sudden because you and she might be unpleasantly surprised.
if you two haven't been sexually intimate, it's harder to jump right in. young or inexperienced women may not realize that what they are doing has such a strong effect with regards to turning you on. for this reason, it doesn't hurt to talk about it, tell her where you'd like to see the relationship go and how soon. explain to her that her style of dress or method of kissing makes it much harder for you to resist her. say that you'd love to make love to her but if she isn't ready she might want to tone it down a bit so that she isn't sending signals she doesn't mean to send. always be polite/gentlemanlike and don't pressure her. she will feel more comfortable with you as a result. some women, if they are comfortable... they'll want to have sex with their man all the time. if yours is still reluctant, apply the techniques listed above.
in any stage of the relationship, women value courtship (the whole door-opening thing, helping her into her coat, all that). be polite and respectful. also keep the lines of communication open. tell her what you like and encourage her to tell you what she likes (then do it!).
2006-06-24 10:27:03
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answered by ecluv7 3
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You can't force or make a girl ready for sex. She has to be comfortable and sure of herself to have sex with you. If she is comfortable and ready for sex, I would said give her some foreplay before anything else.
There are a lot of books on foreplay that you could buy at the book store, if you don't know about it. I hope this answer help you with your question.
2006-06-24 09:37:32
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answered by Felicia 2
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u cant make someone to get ready for sex. sex its a big thing its not easy just to have sex because after sex there is feelings and maybe for the guys its nothing its just sex but for girls its a big thing. don't just have sex with her because u want to. if u love the person a lot u would wait for sex and u shouldn't be thinking about it that much. cause sex its not everything.
2006-06-24 09:34:28
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answered by faith 1
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you make a girl ready for sex by being cool calm and collective. Not groping and anxious. Let her jump you and then you are in. If you are asking how do you make her moist that all depends on the woman and you have to see her style when she jumps you. Always even when you are in the moment be cool calm and collective and you will definetly get her wet!!
2006-06-24 09:33:04
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answered by blondiebella 3
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Foreplay! Or Six seven ten play!
http://www.total-knowledge.com/~willyblues/
2006-06-24 09:32:23
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answered by Anonymous
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try going down south it works everytime, that is if you do it right
2006-06-24 09:31:15
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answered by guerisky 2
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get her in the mood...doesnt take long to get my gf in the mood
2006-06-24 09:32:59
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answered by orange_crush_05 6
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