Ever since I lost my virginity when I was 17, I'm 29 years old now. I always had a thing for fat or "full figured women"? When my friends be like "Man are you serious?" I be like "Yeah, I'm serious!" I'm not bad looking so I'm not desperate. I just have a thing for full figured women no matter what race they are. I seen this white female and the white guys were like "Uggghhh, she's fat!" I was like "She's thick, and juicy!" They all started laughing, but hell I like em' Juicy! I would pick a very full figured woman before I would take one of those Maxim, Stuff, Playboy, King, Smooth, or any of those broads from the Source magazines. Anybody know why I have a thing for these well rounded voluptous beauties?
2006-06-24 09:18:29 · 24 answers · asked by Shawn J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is a fetish your not the only one out there. You guys are the reasons I get dates.
2006-06-24 09:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by Shy Williams 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I have dated women of all different sizes and shapes. I agree with what most of the other posters have said. Larger women do tend to treat their men better, and I think that one woman made the comment on how they don't know when the next man will come around, so they give it their all. My friends have giving me a hard time about dating larger women for a long time. I used to only date thinner women, but after a I met a few very nice larger women that treated me great, my tastes changed. I have gone as high as about 300 pounds (I'm 5'11'' and 187 pounds), but now I prefer a woman with about 20-30 extra pounds. Plus sized, I guess you would say, but not plus plus plus. Go with what you like, and enjoy the benefits of having a nicer woman who treats you well. I'm not saying that there are thinner women who don't treat men well, or that some larger women can't be hateful and rude. A last benefit of enjoying larger women is that you don't have to worry about every other guy in the world hitting on your lady!
2006-06-24 10:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by Spillski 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most likely, there was an event early in your life where you had a very positive experience (possibly in a quasi-sexual fashion) with a "large" woman. This has now carried over to your preferences in adulthood.
Also, it could be some form of rebellion from what society tells you is attractive. You respond by "liking" what they don't want you to "like" which in this case happens to be full-figured women.
As they say, whatever makes you happy and doesn't hurt someone else...
2006-06-24 09:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by Todd F 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Mmmm well no luv, but am glad you are a true man, that takes the stand in your own life. Go after what makes you feel good,,*Big Curves needs Love 2* Sexy is in 1's eyes.. Doyothang, enjoy life to the fullest.
I guess I can say the same thing, a big man makes me feel complete, secure, and mmmmm just right in the bed ,to know you have something that is real, i would rather have something that keeps my love going, rather than eye candy to fit in.
Sharing a hug! from a BBW *wink*
2006-06-24 09:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Big women are beautiful and i think it is great that some men got lovin for them aint nothin wrong with that boy go get you a big girl and be proud.
2006-06-24 09:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jojo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People assume only skinny people are attractive, but some fullfigured/fat girls can be attractive too, for example, Queen Latifa or Missy Elliot. You can't really control who you're attracted to, tell your friends to just shut up about it.
2006-06-24 09:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by laurennn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm willing to bet you want to have kids, too, huh?
Usually when a women has an hourglass figure with wide hips and big breasts it means that she will give birth to and take care of healthy little babies.
:-)
2006-06-24 09:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by NoWayOut 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like you. If it wasn't for you who would like us 'full figured' or 'fat' women. I'm not 'fat' anymore and had to work hard but I've still got me curves and am happy not being skinny, which is quite disgusting. I'm attractive and happy being me.
2006-06-24 09:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by jozlyn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Signs of one appetite are indicative of others. Plus,(pardon the pun) a big girl in the summertime is just about the best water slide there is.
2006-06-24 09:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by Dutch58 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because your only thinking about sex , most chubby women have bigger buts an breast than normal size women, so you like them more because the sex will be better with a woman with bigger breast's an butt
i know because i use to be like that but now I'm way better thx too God !! he freed me from my perversity , an superficiality
2006-06-24 09:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by cingular11111 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good for you! I just think thats really great because "full figured" people never really have anyone think that about them. Mostly only other "full figured" people say those things.
2006-06-24 09:22:29 · answer #11 · answered by efraevo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋