2006-06-24 09:11:59 · 19 answers · asked by hurtinginno 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Do activites that you enjoyed before being in a relationship with him. Do things you like. Then, add in another boyfriend after you have had some time to yourself. Hope this helps.
2006-06-24 09:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by RikChick 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He dropped you because he's depressed. Eventually his depression will take control of the relationship and run you into the ground in the worst way. Everyone needs a positive start in their lives and this could be yours. Good luck!!
2006-06-24 09:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by ujenfo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man! Try hanging out with your friends. Send some flowers to your love. You know you can do nice things without being visible. Maybe when the depression is over the break will be too.
2006-06-24 09:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by T Burr 22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take letters from the former loved one and burn them. Think to yourself or even say out loud that he died and you are sorry he died but you need to move on with your life.
Then treat him as if he were dead. Let your friends and family know you consider him dead.
Don't go looking for a new love right away. Mourn your relationship. Analyse it. When the time is right, then look for a new love.
2006-06-24 09:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you move on and have a girls night with your friends. That always works. Or do somehting you enjoy doing that will take your mind off him. I wouldn't jump right into another relationship because then you'd be using them as a rebound.
2006-06-24 09:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by jean22005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The option of contacting your local Mental Health Association for resources and information as well as visiting
http://www.depressionhurts.com/index.jsp
http://www.nami.org/
2006-06-24 09:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by romanick76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like YOU are the one that's depressed, not him. It was probably just an excuse to get rid of you.
2006-06-24 09:13:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy the book "letting go"
Very informative
in the mean time wear a rubber band around wrist and every time you think of him.. snap it
your mind will start programing self that thinking of boyfriend= pain
and you will stop thinking about him
2006-06-24 09:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of non-depressed options out there.
2006-06-24 09:14:44 · answer #9 · answered by RUNINTLKT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was just saying that because he doesn't really know what he wants and maybe he just needs time to find out.
2006-06-24 09:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋