My sister has been dating her boyfriend for about 4 months and Im not sure if I like him so much. He has been to jail before and he isnt that friendly. What do I do?
2006-06-24 08:51:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He's probably really unhappy with himself and therefore he's unfriendly. He's also probably extremely insecure and finds it hard to be loving towards the people in your sister's life. If you're really concerned, take your sister to lunch and let her know, calmly how you feel. You would just be doing this so that you would be heard and acknowledged...nothing else. You shouldn't expect her to just agree with you and break up with him, because that's unreasonable...but at least you can get it off your chest and it will be in the back of her mind. Ultimately, you have to let your sister live out her life because it is HER life...I know it can be hard sometimes, but it's just whatcha' gotta do.
2006-06-24 09:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by Fivens 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u should talk to your sister and make sure he is not ad using her in any way. If not does not mean u should give up on your concerns. But if it true you need to find a way to get your sister to safety. Before the situation get out of control.
2006-06-24 17:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by Terika F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your sister, but also affirm your love for her. Depending on the level of danger, the more forceful I recommend
2006-06-24 16:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by Vic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to hint your sister as a well wisher, and keeping your cool or just go for a open talk
2006-06-24 15:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending how old she is, It's something that she is going to have to figure out herself. I went through the same thing with bad boys. One day it just hit me he was no good. Then by chance I found the love of my life and I had known him for years. Good luck to you and your sis..
2006-06-24 15:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by puffercountry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your sister. Ask her if he's rude to her or hurts her. You don't want your sister to get hurt but you don't want to make her mad at you either. Good luck.
2006-06-24 15:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by marimbalover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him drunk and beat the crap out of him.
Oh, make sure you break his knee cap so he won't be able to go anywhere.
2006-06-24 15:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur sis like a frnd. she will b grateful if u save her life frm disaster.................or, be frank with ur parents, and explain them the issue
best of luk!!
2006-06-24 16:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by rapt attention 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat his a$$
2006-06-24 15:54:58 · answer #9 · answered by Joe B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋