I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and I dont want us to get tierd of each other... We see each other almost every day and if were not together were on the phone with each other. Were strating to have arguements over little petty stuff. Do you think we need some space from each other before things start to get bad?
2006-06-24 08:39:55 · 7 answers · asked by Tbaby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont say "we need some space"... that puts a hole in the rship. petty arguments are bound to happen. its part and parcel of a rship. maybe when u guys dont see each other, try cutting the phone convo shorter? dont wait till both of u feel as if u guys have nothing else to say before u hang up... find excuses like, "oh, *enter name* said she needed to talk to me. i better go. talk to u tomorrow? miss me! bye!"... sometimes keeping things short and sweet can make a person long for more. thats probably a way to keep things more fire-y? - and by talking less, u get more space.
aaaand may i remind u, when you're in a relationship, u cant really demand tooooo much space like when u're single anymore. so take it easy and just go with the flow.
2006-06-24 08:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by lil'sammy 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Yes! In every relationship BOTH people need space and time to other things with freinds or family. This is needed from the beginning of the relationship.
2006-06-24 08:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by bethie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think ur arguements were goin really bad just tell him that u dont want to fight with him or something and if u think that u guys need space then tell him that. or dont and hang out with ur friends more and not have time to be on the phone with him or see him for few days
2006-06-24 08:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Space is always a good thing. So yes, give yourself some space.
One of two things will happen...either it will get better or it will get worse. Either way, you've got your space.
Everyone needs some "down-time" or space. Other wise it's like being smothered and that's no fun!
Best wishes!!!
2006-06-24 08:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by Salvation is a gift, Eph 2:8-9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need 'space' all the time. you´ll be surprised at how well a bit of 'space' works. You cannot be together all the time. 'Familiarity breeds contempt' or ´Absence makes the heart grow fonder'
You choose.
2006-06-24 08:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by Tokoloshimani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just slow down the pace a little. see other friends, make arrangements to go out with others. this will give you more quality time when you do see each other and more to talk about
2006-06-24 08:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by lushy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are feeling crowded then tell him u want some spas
2006-06-24 08:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by baby girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋