i cheated onmy fiancee last nite with a bouncer from a club, i feel bad should I tell my fiancee?

Question

Im not a virgin by no way, havent been since I was 21. My fiancee was myfirst person. It was the liquor talking, i regret it, but it was sooooo gooood. Not saying that my fiancee is good. But the bouncer had a tongue ring, need I say more girls..hooot

Answer 1

hell no he will never find out he ur fuc.....ing fiancee u dont want to ruin it plus wat u did didnt mean nthing

Answer 2

sounds like he isn't much of a fiancee if you cheated on him. how long have you been engaged.what happens, if sometime u and the fiancee go into this same club and the bouncer says something to him. you'll probably feel guilty until u tell him, but be prepared to not be engaged anymore.

Answer 3

You must decide two things: is this a secret that you can live with, and do your man has a right to know. For the second question ask yourself do you have a right to know if you man is cheating on you now. According to how you answer those questions determine if you should tell you him.

Regardless if you decide to tell your man or not you must start to think about why it occurred, if you are ready marriage, is your man the right one for you, and how soon can you go get tested for STDS to see if you slip-up is going to be a long term problem.

Answer 4

No. You should hide it and hope to get away with it the rest of your life. If you have to ask this question then you don't really want an answer. You just want to feel good and not take the responsibility that comes with a serious relationship.

Grow up! Take responsibility for your own action.

Confess, come clean and start anew.

Answer 5

Dont tell anyone if you still want to marry him. What isnt known wont hurt. But you really need to get a grip on what you did. Not even married yet and cheating. That dont sound like commitment to me. Its time you take a reallity check with yourself and see if you are ready for marriage.

Answer 6

yes because it is not a real relationship if you lie to one another. Being honest is the best.! You may lose him you may not but you have to be honest you don't want to build a life with him on lies it will only get worse. Because you will start to make lie us to cover up the other lie and be for you know it you don't know what is truth or a lie anymore

Answer 7

Noooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!

If it was a situation where you just had to have it....and it was better then you've ever had with you fiance...the excitement or the pleasure or whatever. Then you have bigger problems with your fiance and maybe you need to consider just breaking off the relationship.

Why hurt the guy??

Answer 8

unless there is anyway he will find out first from anyonelse i would advice DO NOT DO IT!!!!!! if there were no feelings there then dont even bother turmenting yourself.
if you do decied to tell him sure thing he will hold it over your head and always use it against you.. just ask god for forgiveness and also forgive yourself and if your truly sorry dont do it again
speaking for true experience

Answer 9

Yeah you should tell him and then hopefully he will hold your worthless *** down and shave that skank head of yours. If he's lucky his girlfriend "the whore" will have caught a scorching case of the Herpes during her seedy affair.

Answer 10

its best to just be honest about what you did and suffer what may come after you tell him, its alot better to go ahead and get it off your chest instead of holding it in and feeling guilt for it, if you do it will eat at you forever...

Answer 11

yeah and he should imediately dump your *** too. You were in a relationship with someone, and you violated that. Quite frankly, he deserves far better than that.

Hope it was worth it, skank.