Am i ruining my relationship with my boyfriend if i give him a "one a day" - a bj once a day? I do it cuz he absolutly loves it but im thinking now that if i do that his craving for me will go down and it will terminate the excitement in our relationship
2006-06-24 08:03:35 · 14 answers · asked by redhot787 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
too often --- too much of anything will destroy the desire. If you eat a burger everyday how quickly will you hate burger. moderation dear
2006-06-24 08:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
well.... this question can be answered two ways the first one being yes it can ruin the relationship if his craving for sex go away but then again you need to ask your self it sex is the soul foundation of your relationship. If it is then it work out anyway but if the two of you actually love each other then there is nothing to worry about because it isn't just a feeding in to a physical hunger anymore it's so much more than that. It giving your self complete to the one you love while he gives himself to you in return.
2006-06-24 15:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by patrice0604 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it seems that your relationship is built on you giving a BJ. If you were to stop, would he break up with you? If he would, then you know what to do. A relationship should never be based on sex.......because if you get pregnant.......he'll move on, and you're stuck with a lifelong commitment.....think about it and good luck
2006-06-24 15:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are better then alot of girls, because I know that these days they are not going for that even myself is not going for that . If that is what makes both of y'all happy then do what you need to do to keep yo man but don't let him get over on you; you say you love this man but if thats what you have to do everyday then I don't think that a good relationship.
2006-06-24 15:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lady bug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm hoping that there is something that he is doing for you!!!
No! Its not the frequency that may become the problem. Its if you find yourself "having" to do it for him. You know, like cook the dinner, wash the dishes, take out the trash, give him his B/J.
When it becomes just another chore to get out of the way. Youll know ya done did it too much.
PS to Audrey X.....LOL You go girl!!!
2006-06-24 15:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so,unless your doing it against your will.I would think that his desire for you would only increase.If you unselfishly give of yourself for the pleasure of the one you love,that says alot about you.Who would want to lose someone like that.Not me.All relationships have their hot and cold moments.Its up to the individuals to keep it exciting and fresh.
2006-06-24 15:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by Professor Riddle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi redhot,
quite an interesting question.
Well i see the traffic is one way.
Ask this, can he return the favor daily for some days
i mean, can he lick you and make you hit the peak ?
try talking to him, saying that even you would like to hit the peak or challenge him to do that.
Cheers,
Gyaan Guru
2006-06-24 15:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by Gyaan Guru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if u give him like 2 3 x's a week he will enjoy it even more. because the more that u give it to him he will not want it all the time. also i recommend that u rub his balls when doing it
2006-06-24 15:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do it because you enjoy it as well! Not just because he likes it. thats wonderfull he enjoys something you do, but it needs to be both ways hunny. you are not a toy to be used, but a person just the same, and have wants and needs as well. take care and good luck\
2006-06-24 15:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by melanie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd play hard to get...do different stuff everyday or he'll get used to it and sick of it.
2006-06-24 15:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by kaycee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋