If u are attracted to someone, and all they want is to just bed buddies should u leave them or continue?

Answer 1

if you want a relationship then the answer is yes leave him. sex is not the most important thing in life and i would say the guy in all of this is making out. you deserve better don't you? i would want more than just sex. i deserve someone who loves me and takes care of me. don't you. in the end it depends on what you want. so you just want sex or more? that only you can answer.

Answer 2

You say you're attracted to the person. Do you mean physically and physically alone? If so, it's a great idea to be bed buddies and nothing more. However, if you're attracted to the person's personality, intelligence and overall view of life, don't set yourself up for heartbreak by being only a bed buddy. You may think "ok if I do this they'll develop the same feelings for me as I do for him (or her)....but this isn't always the case. Also, since you're not "with" the person, do what feels right to you. If you're uncomfortable with being a friend with benefits....don't be. That little voice in the back of your head will thank you.

Answer 3

Is that the type of relationship you want? Or do you want something more with this person? If you just want a roll in the hay then go for it, but don't expect this person to respect you or even care about you other than for sex. However, if you want a loving relationship and you can't get it without the sex , leave this person. You will in time meet someone who you will love and care about and the feelings will be returned to you and it won't depend on the sex part. Besides when you have the right person you will make love and it will be beautiful and you will cherish it forever. Take care and good luck

Answer 4

only stay if you are 100% OK with being bed buddies! translation: you don't want anymore than that, and won't be hurt if he loses interest in being bed buddies as well. everyone grows up eventually, and even if bed buddies is OK now, he is bound to fall for someone else eventually. if you are emotionally invested...
AT ALL ... back away from the player. don't let him have his apple pie and eat it too:o)...even if he is good at it :o). there are plenty of other guys out there that will be willing to give you more! know your worth chika dee!

Answer 5

Its really up to you to decide.. if you feel like you want more that just bed buddies and that someone doesnt want more than that.. then you should leave before you get hurt.

Answer 6

It depends do you feel like you love them? If you love them leave. If you enjoy it....and would be comfortable sleeping with someone else then you may want to consider continuing. I have friends that do the causal sex thing and it works for them. Personally sex is very emotional for me and I cannot control that....so I would leave them.

Answer 7

It depends. Of course you are attracted to someone if you are going to sleep with them. If you can handle just sleeping with them then go ahead, but if your feelings are more than that and you actually want to be with them then it would be best for you to leave them alone.

Answer 8

You are better than just somebody's "bed buddy"! Leave him, and find a good man.

Answer 9

Be their friend. You can always have a good time witht ehm and even if you want it to go further but it can't, wouldn't you rather have that person as a friend instead of just forgetting about them?

Answer 10

I was told once "sex is like the glue in the frame work of a structure, it is needed, but it takes much more to make it stand".