my best friend is dating my boyfriends brother. Yesterday she tells me that her and her boyfriend were with my boyfriend the other night and he said "when i get this other chic im dumping my gf' Now obviously hearing that information enraged me. So do i be adult about it and just end it and walk away? Or do i not tell him i know his plan and get some revenge?
2006-06-24 07:39:52 · 40 answers · asked by andrea lynn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Combine both...get revenge, but do it with control over yourself. Then you get two things done, and have a lot of fun!
2006-06-24 07:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by lil_drumin_brat 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just dump him first and don't sit around waiting go look for someone new who will appreciate you. Don't try the revenge thing. You know the old saying what goes around comes around and it would surely be back to bite you hard. So be an adult and just get on with your life.
2006-06-24 07:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by lostinlove 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get revenge. I would just leave him. You don't need people like that in your life. Don't compromise your integrity. By getting revenge, you're only looking for a response to your revenge(you want to see his reaction). The only way to heal and move on is to ignore him completely. Learn from his mistakes, and know that it is not the way to treat people, and move on. And it sounds like you have a great friend. Those are the kind to hold on too.
2006-06-24 08:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you've heard this do you see signs that this info may be true. Your best friend may not really be your best friend. She may even want your boyfriend. There should be nothing heard by a 3rd party about your significant that should be considered to be true unless you already have reasonable doubt. Some may say "you can use me until you use me up." and some may say " i can do bad all by myself," but what do you feel? Communication is the key. I would discuss with him the possibilities of the future of the relationship and then I would make a decision. But if i let him go he would definitely be a friend with benefits.......if it's worth it.
2006-06-24 07:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by neoflippintrukid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump hiim first. It's so obvious that you are nothing more than a place for him to stick his dick until something better comes along. He used you, but YOU LET HIM so the blame for the relationship not working out is EQUALLY SHARED between the two of you. Learn something from this experience and move on with the grace of a WOMAN not the immaturity of a child
2006-06-24 07:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a adult and not let them know.Just remeber that when he finds out how well he had it and knows he screwed up he'll come running back and then the ball is in your court.Just be polite and kind when you say No Thanks Im looking for a person with morals and values.Also someone that is grown up and not wanting to play games.Revenge can always come back and burn the person lighting the flame.... Best Wishes
2006-06-24 07:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just end it and walk away....don't look back...you can find someone out there who really respects you...Don't worry about revenge it's not as sweet as it seems.
2006-06-24 08:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away and don't look back. Revenge is not the answer. It will come back to bite you. Good luck.
2006-06-24 07:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to bring it to his attention in front of your friend.. who knows your friend could be jealous of your relationship compared to hers, so then all you need to do is to just take it day by day, and make sure that you are the 1 for him, and he is thge one for you.. Alos if you haven't already start saving as much $ as you can ----- just for a rany day, and your boyfriend nor does your friend need to know that you are saving for your future and protection... At least IF that time do come, you will have $ to take care of yourself...
2006-06-24 07:43:27 · answer #9 · answered by shavonnye24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be an adult and end your relationship with him.. dont stoop down to his level (revenge).. just end it before.. that would surely catch him off guard
2006-06-24 07:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋