For the life of me I can't get a girlfriend!
It's the same problems over and over again for example here are a few:
1. Too shy and can't ask women real questions about thereselves, so I makes my look unatainable and not interested in them on that level, so I become just a friend.
2. Women say I'm great looking all the time, but that I'm too into how I look and too much into myself.
But I'm not, I'm really dying inside to let them know how much I like them or how great they look. Hell I want to compliment them all the time but it doesn't come out and I look like a narcissist with a big ego.
All because I'm shy....
3. They think I have a girlfirend or that I talk to a lot of women, Dude I never even had a girlfirend.
What do I do!
Thanks
Prominence
2006-06-24 07:01:28 · 7 answers · asked by prominence 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If people are telling you that, maybe its a little true? Try working on the flaws you pointed out. Let me know how it goes, hu?
2006-06-24 07:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by skigod377 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow! umm guess what? im 24 and I never had a boyfriend! so, im in the same boat as u! Well when im interested in a guy I dont show body language to a guy to show im interested, and they take it as not interested! Which is so not true! I am considered quiet not shy! but Just be you ok! There is a girl who is outgoing who will proabably ask u out!
Here are some clues when I can tell a guy who is shy but likes me, so maybe do these things)
1.Show eye contact!!!
2.Smile while shaking hands with the girl and show eye contact!!
3. Touch her arm or shoulders ( make sure not everyone is watching ( if ur in a group)
4. Do not stare , but if she is across the room watching u , keep an eye on her( make sure she knows ur watching)
5. and most of all BE yourself!! Whatever that is!!
2006-06-24 14:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm shy at times too but if you continue to be that way you will miss on tons of opportunities in life and love. I keep this in mind and tell myself that even if I don't have to confidence to do things I'll have to fake it. I pretty much force myself into situation that will make me open up. Doing things like that over time gave me the confidence to give my own number to guys over time and now I've worked my way up to asking a guy out. A guy that I'm still seeing and it has actually been my longest relationship yet.
2006-06-24 14:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by Charmedwu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to say this, but just relax. I know it sounds too easy, but from a woman's view, if you are relaxed & confident, you come across as sexy. Women respect a guy who takes care of himself, but she will also need you to be there when she needs a compliment or just a shoulder to lean on. Make her feel as important as you make yourself look, or even better.
2006-06-24 14:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by Red Velvet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not think this is a good answer but the best thing you can do to help you thru this problem is your mother. She can help you get past your shyness. If she is not available, find a female psycologist. TRUST ME IT WORKS!!
I never could talk to my mother but I could talk to my father about guys. Good luck.
2006-06-24 14:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by ~Sheila~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey the thing is girls like shy. and if you have looks to go with it wow nice lucky you. now have you got the personality. here are some tips for you>>
2006-06-24 14:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by yumm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
2006-06-26 17:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋