My girl friends ,girl friend ask me if i want to have sex with her .?

Question

I said to her i am sorry you asked me that ., and she said why ,and i replyed cause now i have to tell what you siad .
So i did and she was upset she said how does she no that i didnt sleep with her . and i am just saying that to cover my ***. Then she never confronts her friend and she acts like nothing happened
what should i make of that

Answer 1

Maybe she's not really a friend of hers at all and is just using her to get to you.

Answer 2

It may be she believes that you and this other girl did do it, and that you only told her what you did because you were afraid she'd find out from a third party what 'really' happened, and that of course the other girl won't tell the truth either... Which may be why she didn't confront her.

You have a very difficult situation on your hands at the moment. Although given her silence, she may have decided to give you the benefit of the doubt and see whether you have any more such 'adventures' in the future.

Either way, I don't think you can assume that the trust problem is solved, and unfortunately, there really isn't any way to 'prove' your innocence except time, perhaps much time, of being devoted and faithful. And it might never really work, if she is the non-trusting type.

On the other hand, maybe the miracle will happen and she will think that you were just doing the honorable thing and nothing more. I can't see bringing the matter up, however, unless she does, because if she gets the idea you are worried about what she thinks, she may take it as evidence of a guilty conscience.

Now that I think of it, another reason why she didn't confront her friend may be that she may not want to lose that friendship, and so she figures that the best solution is to say nothing to either of you.

I'm guessing that least they are probably not sleeping together, or she would have made more of a fuss.

Beyond that I don't really know what to say because I don't know the two of you to understand how your minds work. Hope this helps.

God bless you

Answer 3

When a friend of your girl friend asks you to go out, or to have sex - it is ALWAYS a trap, or a test. Your girlfriend thinks she is smart enough to manipulate you, and wants to put you in a bad situation - and she has asked her friend to "tempt" you to see if you will fall for it.

When ever this happens in the future, call up your girlfriend, and break up with her on the spot - tell her you think she is outlandishly stupid, and that you don't like being manipulated, and that if she has so littel respect for you as to test you in this sort of way, she is not the person you want to be with.

Then bang her friend.

Then find a new girlfriend.

OR - you will spend the rest of the relationship beeing whipped.

Answer 4

Sounds like your g/f has one of the following;
A)Does not trust you or trusts her friend more than she trusts you.
B)Believes you slept with her anyway and doesn’t trust either of you.
C)Has issues confronting the problem of her friend trying to steal her man.
D)Her feelings towards you are not strong enough to motivate her to a confrontation with her friend.
E)She and her friend have secrets between the both of them that you are not aware of. Something they know or share that excludes you from causing friction between them.
F)She may be planning to leave you in the near future.
Hope my advice helps you in any way. But the lack of facts has left me to wider conclusions of possibilities. Good Luck!

Answer 5

Sounds like a set up. Your girlfriend put her up to it so she can be mad at you. You in turn say the heck with this and break up which is what she wanted the whole time, just did not have the guts to say.

Answer 6

that was dumb you shouldve bumped her belly and knew you was going to be accused of it sorry man but that was a stupid part on you