Please do give me advise on handling a brake up!
My boyfriend and i recently moved into our flat. because we had defnitely future plans. I went on my yearly leave for 2 weeks. i got back and i busted him that he's been cheating on me for 2 weeks!
Now i want some help:
I need advise and help because i am SOOOOO in love and still loves him (and i know that we will never have a future together)
I'm emotionaly depressed, but i really trying to keep it up. i feel so lonely, teribly lonley and that no one 'wants' me anymore. this is the saddest and loneiest i ever felt in my whole life
Please do give me advise
2006-06-24 06:58:11 · 4 answers · asked by blommekie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi dear!!!!
you know,, any guys are naturally polygamous,,,
almost all of them loves to cheat,,
almost all of them loves to try another flavor,,,
there are some good guys though,,, itsa just a matter of acceptance,, being matured in different situations
well,,, if you really love him,, give him another chance,,,
talk to him and give him some do's and donts
if the second time around and he done it again,,, well,,
thats the time you end it!!!
if you can't accept it,,, well,, the only thing you can do is to move on,,, make yourself more busy!!!!
work hard,,,, go out with friends,,, let yourself be heard,,,
if you need someone to talk to we can chat,,,
but,, dont forget!!!
PRAY!!!!
GOD IS ALWAYS THERE!!!
HE WILL GUIDE YOU AND HELP YOU ALL THROUGH OUT!!!
GOD HAS ITS OWN PLANS DEAR!!!
THAT MIGHT HAPPEN WITH GOOD REASONS...
MAYBE THAT GUY IS NOT THE RIGHT MAN FOR YOU!!!
move on and go!!!
God will send us the right man at the right time!!!
Don't try using another man to get over him coz it wont help.. you'll just create a new problem!!
l_e_a_h_02@yahoo.com
take care and God bless!!!
2006-06-24 07:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by l_e_a_h_02 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no quick answer as I have been there..but find solace in that with time your heart will heal and maybe the cheating asswipe will be hit by a truck....oh and PS if truly depressed I answered and question relating to depressed..the answer masturbation can help I believe....good luck and good mental health..find a better **** buddy...
2006-06-24 14:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jerome R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience you'll never trust him again and always question if he's doing it again. If you can repair your trust your lucky, but honestly, not all guys cheat and their is mostly likely someone else way better out there that will treasure being with you and not cheat when you're away.
2006-06-24 14:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't do right for two weeks, you no you can't trust him. Kick him out!!!! There's someone out there who will love and trust you like a lady. Good Luck.
2006-06-24 14:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by Basilchef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋