what would you say to your boyfriend/girlfriend that broke up with you to change their mind?

Question

last night i broke up with my gf because for one we live in dif states now, and we at least talk everyday because we both have cingualr and its free. but recently she hasnt been calln or answerin my calls till like 1 in the mornin. so i told her its over and when she grows up and gets serious bout this relationship as i am call me. and all she said was ok. i said if u wana be with me you better convince me that u do. and she said she didnt no wut to say. oh we been daten now for almost 2 yrs. she use to live here then she moved. but what would yall say if u were in her shoes and what would u do in my shoes?

oh she wont let me go see her idk why but she said she dont want me to come to utah cuz i would hate it there and cuz she is guna come here which is bull$#!t

oh she wont let me go see her idk why but she said she dont want me to come to utah cuz i would hate it there and cuz she is guna come here which is bull$#!t

Answer 1

...it sounds like she has moved on. This is painful, and I suggest you mourn the loss and move on. Please don't grovel, it makes it harder for both of you. There may be a time in the future that she realizes her mistake, but then you have your own life to live. Timing is timing...take care.

Answer 2

Well this is a sticky situation i would say if I loved him...
that i care for u alot nad love like nothing else in this world i don't mean to hurt ur feeling but I've been busy and thats the onlt time i have to answer ur calls......if i was in ur shoes if she cares about u enough then she would have the worlds to defend her case to try to win u back something like that.......we lll i hope this helps and things goes as u would like

Answer 3

Maybe she has just been very busy lately and didnt have any time to call you. If ya'll have been together for so long, than maybe you can still make it work out if you really want to. Do you ask her why she hadn't been calling you? If I were her I wouldn't know what to say, but if you still feel strongly about her then maybe you should apolagize and start over.

Answer 4

I think you did the right thing about breaking up. More often than not, long distance relationships don't work. All relationships are a compromise, you BOTH have to make it work.. not one or the other. If she doesn't want it to work, it won't. And vice versa.
Find someone closer.

Answer 5

Well from what your telling me your not the only one. She probable has someone else. so you need to tell her from the time being if you guys dont get back in the same states together you should tell her ya'll need to be friends for now if you still like her just stay in touch.But you need to move on.

Answer 6

different state thing is very hard. give her another try. and if its been that long and u trust eachother then u should move in together, and see if u want to move to a differnt state together, to get a fresh start.

Answer 7

definitley, u undergo the pain.
a love which is not reciprocrated is very painful.
afterall u cannot force anyone to lovve you.

if she does not want to keep in touch then leave it.
remmebr if you love somone leave him free if it comes back to you then it si yours otherwise it wasnever yours.ok
best of luck nad be cheerful this is not the end of the world.

Answer 8

I would say she deserves someone who is respectful of her feelings. if someone cares about you, you should be as kind as you can, don't hurt others because they happen to fall for you, you may go 10 years and not find anyone that likes you. be thankful she does.

Answer 9

Man if she don't want you to go see her then she probly don't want you to go cuzshe might have another bf. So just say you're really really sorry and ask if you guys can still be good friends.

Answer 10

she says the right thing, if i was in your shoes i would stop calling and moved on