My boyfriend works...alot. When he gets home from work it's about 5 in the evening . Anyways he gets cleaned up and then comes to my house. He will sit with me like 5 min. before falling asleep until my mom tells him to go home for the night. I feel like I never get to talk to him anymore. But if I tell him to please stay awake he gets upset and aggrivated. He goes to work so he can buy me things and take care of me and himself. So should I feel guilty for feeling the way I do?
2006-06-24 06:39:27 · 5 answers · asked by uluvme8807 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do belive my girlfriend will feel the same way as u. i end my day at work ard 8 in the evening every single day. although i tried my very best to meet up with her as offten as possible she will still feel that she is being left out we can never chat on the phone. (my job scope probits that) and i cant change job as its pretty difficult to find one.... Give him some hints that u are lonely and try to get his attention. havew a good talk with him as i believe u would love to have a good talk with him rather than he buying u things. ( talk to him about it before he knock off to sleep..) good luck.
2006-06-24 06:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Headache 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel quilty no but you will find this is common in people that work alot my husband does the same thing works all day and half the night comes home eats and falls asleep watching tv what you do need to consider is that he is working hard to provide for you so you can stick with someone that is dependable or you can get rid of him find a boyfriend without a job that will hang out with you all the time he is mooching off of you or you can apperciate what you have
2006-06-24 13:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this problem with my hubby sometimes, be thankful that he does come to you and that he is that tired because he keeps the job to buy you things and take care of you. I'm sure the aggrivation is from stress and being tired. His being upset, well he probably feels like your taking him for granted and not appreciating what he does for you. You have to ask yourself what is more important and what do you want more...to spend time with him or material possessions.
2006-06-24 13:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by ~Mother Of Angels~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wheather he is tried from work or not he still needs to find a way to stay awake for you. And if he is that tried sleep at his house.
2006-06-24 13:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mrswindon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey the thing is hes with you. hes no where else. he comes over just to see you and be with you
2006-06-24 13:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋