she says she only did it because she was hurt. I only dumped her because i was afraid of marriage, and needed some time to think. I realized i want to marry her, but it hurts what she did when i was gone...should i be angry? she says i do not have the right.
2006-06-24 06:38:35 · 10 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As soon as you were out of the picture for two short months she screws three guys and you're wondering if you should be mad? If your stupid enough to marry her you deserve everything you'll have coming your way, and trust me, there will be A LOT coming your way. She just discovered she's a whore. Do you think she'll stop if you get married? Won't happen buddy.
2006-06-24 06:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You ask :"should I be angry?' You should be whatever you are. If you're angry, then yes - be angry. Take your time to think about this and don't rush into marriage. She seems a bit flaky to me.
Instead of feeling sad because you left her, she's out having sex with 3 different guys? There is a strong message here. What will she do if you are in the hospital for awhile? or your job transfers you to another state and she has to wait until you get settled? Or you had to go into the military? Or if she is just upset about something?
Love will wait.......
You definitely have the right to feel angry and hurt by her behavior. I'll bet if you were the one to have had sex with different women, she would be singing a much different tune.
2006-06-24 13:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by purplewings123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, no. You shouldn't be angry. You dumped her. If you were together 5 years, you should have married her. Yes, it was kind of fast for her to sleep with someone else and it may have been the wrong thing to do, but she was single and available.
2006-06-24 13:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't be angry. You dumped her. You lose the right when you dump her. She could've married one of these guys. It's a golden rule- once you're not dating you can do whatever regardless of the other person especially if you got dumped.
2006-06-24 13:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by domijn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah you should be angry. She cheated on you with three other guys and expect you not to be angry. Would if you were maried to her and she did it just becasue she was hurt. How you know to trust her next time she get's so called hurt. She might cheat on you with more guys. Yes you have a right to be angry 100%.
2006-06-24 13:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by Tbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is correct. You do not have the right to be mad because YOU dumped HER. Therefore she was free to do whatever, with whoever she wanted. Get over it or break up for good.
2006-06-24 13:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont look back she has hurt you enough and will do it again. life is to short to be unhappy like that. there will be a nice girl out there just for you that will love you and be loyal and honest. dont give up yet
oh and pls dont take yr ex back
2006-06-24 13:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! you dumped her what right do you have to be angry ? was she supposed to quit living hopping you would come back ?
2006-06-24 13:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by trigerjoe001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have invited the other three guys over and did a group sex thing then all sit around and circle jerk
2006-06-24 13:43:13 · answer #9 · answered by jameswilson1964 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you should do is CELEBRATE!!!! Do the HAPPY DANCE!!!!
She is finally out of your life! You don't need someone like that. She is selfish, insecure, thoughtless and so me me me.
2006-06-24 13:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋