how do i have to tell a girl that i like (not love) her? ... i think she already knows but ignores me.?

Question

i'm an kinda big (well not a beast) and she is a model ... i feel like idiot ....!!! she never talk about herself or her feelings ... i'm not sure if she has any for me ... we spend alot of time together as school boddies ... but since last week that holidays started i was the only one who contacted her ... onec she said "semester is finished so got nothing to do" when i asked her "hey u don't contact very often! later that day i was chatting with her and i tried alot to make her talk to me about something other than school ... even asked her to joim me to throw a partiy before classmates gone back home and she rejected my idea and said i'm not in that mood>

note: "this attitude of her somehow make me even more interested and attracted to her!!!!"

Answer 1

:Usually people who don't want to talk about themselves are selfish, thoughtless and very me me me types.

Open communication is important here because it builds trust. If she holds back in any way , then she is hiding something or doesn't care about you or anyone else for that matter.

When 99% of all people out there are just out for themselves and/or for money, we only want to find and be with the 1% that isn't, in the opposite sex category.

Answer 2

Tell her and see how she reacts. If she doesn't give you an answer or changes the subject she is not interested. Maybe she wants a real friendship and nothing more. Don't pressure her too much b/c she might end up not talking to you anymore.

Answer 3

Just ask her for a date. The worst she can say is no right? If she says yes then great go for it. If she says no then don't let it get you down man because there are a hell of alot of other women out there. Just remember if you go out with her and things don't work out for whatever reason make it clear that you don't want to let it ruin your friendship with her. That's the best advice I can think of for ya. Good luck.....

Answer 4

she might be playing hard to get OR she doesn't like you, but is playing around with you. You should confront her and ask her if she likes you or no, otherwise youll be worrying about his ALL YEAR! be careful.